Habits reveal a persons psychology?

A girl told me I have commitment issues and that I am 'flighty' because I don't really hold on to things and throw things away easily,I also don't have very many possessions.She on the other hand is a messy 'pack rat' ,she also has ALOT of stuffed animals and things she likes to take care of,plants,pets,fishes..umm,she just likes taking care of things lol I find it odd that she clings on to everything she has and she thinks I am nuts for not caring about material items...

Answer:
I don't think that is it at all. I'm sure the things you think are important you hold on too. Maybe you just aren't into animals much. All of what she said means notta.
You are ok.
dont always believe what you here
oh, can I ever relate. I am just like you and my boyfriend is just like your girlfriend... And it has caused alot of hell in our relationship... Mostly because he is also messy, disorganized, and cares nothing about keeping my space clean - we live together. It has been 18 months of pure hell.

I think she is wrong. While you may not put alot of value on "stuff" maybe you truely value your family and your girlfriend. You value your job and your home and making a nice life for yourself - but you don't tie emotion to inanimate objects. I'm the same way. There is nothing wrong with living a simple tidy life - so you can focus your energy on more important things. Pack rat focus too much energy on things and not the people they represent - the memories that are attached.Good luck and wish me good luck too..

Oh, before your love goes down the toilet (if you fight alot about the mess) - convince her to get a storage unit and help her pack up the memories and move them out instead of one of you!

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