How to find yourself?

Im getting to the stage in my life when im starting to ask myself, 'who am i?' i guess i want to try and find myself. The summer holidays are coming up and I thought it would be a good time to do this. All i know is that i want to do something creative, get a first job (obviously not a proper one cuz im only 14), have new experiences and make friends OUTSIDE of school. So, how does somebody 'find themselves' exactly?

Answer:
To get a job is a great start. After that it's a matter of what will you do with the money earned. A LOT of grown people cannot hold a job and have no economic responsibility. Don't stress over it though. Just have fun and try to not get fired you'll be OK.
You're lost? Hee hee. Just kidding. Okay, when someone finds themselves it's a term for understanding who you are inside. That begins with your belief's. What do you believe in? What kinds of things bring you joy? What does that feel like to you? What are your strengths? Your weaknesses? What do you want for your whole life? Money? Family? What is important to you today and do you see that changing any time soon? These are the kinds of questions people who truly want to get to know themselves ask. Write it down. Once you see it in black and white, your picture of life will clear up.
Take a note pad and pen/pencil and sit down in front of a mirror and just stare at yourself. Look for a while. Write down anything negative and positive that comes to mind (you will be surprised that most of it will not be about your looks). It will probably start off slow and feel weird but then look out! Thoughts and ideas will just start rolling out!! It is fun and you might be surprised at what you find out about yourself. This will be your title. Yes, title. Life is not easy nor do things always work out the way you want them to but you need to have a title. You need a start. There you go!
there's no written way to do it. all you have to do is live your life. If youre given a new opportunity- take it. Dont sit inside all day. Get to know people who are willing to know you, because you never know how important they might be to you in the future. Go out and experience life, and if its gonna change your life, let it. dont ever be afraid to make mistakes, its how you learn. And somewhere between the 5 hour phone calls and long nights out; youre gonna look back and realize you now know who you are, who you love & what you love. nobody can tell you exactly how to do that.

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