The reason i put this question on this category is because i want a psychologic answer.read and help please?
I just turned 17.i havent had any girlfriends.but now, i love girls which i dont know so i cant ask them out.my friend said why dont you pick one from the girls u know.but i dont love any of the girls im friend with.in other words, my question is, How can i get the girl i want even if she doesnt know me well?
Thank you
Answer:
The whole reason that you "date" is to get to know one another better. Dating is the chance to see how the other person reacts around you, around others, and in various social settings. You get to talk, get to laugh, and maybe get to cry together--even if it is about something inconsequential.
So, this is the line you need, "Hi, my name is ____. I don't know you yet, but I sure would like to get to know you better. Without knowing me, it would be hard for you to know the kind of person I am either. Are you free to go out with me This Friday evening, so we could get to know one another a little better?"
It is just that easy. If they say "no," tough. Maybe they have a "steady" boyfriend. But if they say "yes", well it was certainly worth asking!
Remember, you aren't asking someone to marry you, to know you, or to be dating you. You are asking for the opportunity to get to know them better, thereby finding out if they are someone you'd like to date again.
what a twisted mind!! chased & catch the clouds & you'll get your girl!
Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat – you don’t “love” any girl right now. You don’t know the girls you say you “love” enough to love them yet. And besides, you don’t have to be in love with a girl just to ask her out. Real love starts out as a friendship. Love is based on trust and respect, and you can’t trust or respect someone you don’t know.
That said, the only thing left to do is just ask one of these girls out. You don’t have to say, “will you go on a date with me?”, you can just ask if she’d like to go for coffee or a movie with you. As you get to know each other, you can decide whether or not to keep seeing each other. You might even just end up with a new friend.
Find~out where she hangs~out, then go see her next I would make eye contact, give her the look,and a smile, then look away when she catches your. done! Keep going there for a couple of weeks, then someday when you get your nerve~up, introduce yourself and just hi, my name is.. Tell her she has pretty eyes. Girls love it for a guy to notice their appearance, they love the guy to focus on them. then ask her if she want's to go for an ice~cream or somthing.
At 17 you're just learning what to expect when trying desperately to communicate what it is that you need from the opposite sex. Slow down. Think about what "she may want" and then you'll have the tools you need to open dialog that might be affective. When you understand that a female at that age requires a lot of emotional support then you will understand what it is that you have that you can show or offer her. You'll win her in the end. Good luck. God's speed.
Ask and you shall receive. It takes faith. I will not go into all the aspects of any situation, bottome line. You need Jesus Christ as you Lord and Savior.
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Thank you
Answer:
The whole reason that you "date" is to get to know one another better. Dating is the chance to see how the other person reacts around you, around others, and in various social settings. You get to talk, get to laugh, and maybe get to cry together--even if it is about something inconsequential.
So, this is the line you need, "Hi, my name is ____. I don't know you yet, but I sure would like to get to know you better. Without knowing me, it would be hard for you to know the kind of person I am either. Are you free to go out with me This Friday evening, so we could get to know one another a little better?"
It is just that easy. If they say "no," tough. Maybe they have a "steady" boyfriend. But if they say "yes", well it was certainly worth asking!
Remember, you aren't asking someone to marry you, to know you, or to be dating you. You are asking for the opportunity to get to know them better, thereby finding out if they are someone you'd like to date again.
what a twisted mind!! chased & catch the clouds & you'll get your girl!
Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat – you don’t “love” any girl right now. You don’t know the girls you say you “love” enough to love them yet. And besides, you don’t have to be in love with a girl just to ask her out. Real love starts out as a friendship. Love is based on trust and respect, and you can’t trust or respect someone you don’t know.
That said, the only thing left to do is just ask one of these girls out. You don’t have to say, “will you go on a date with me?”, you can just ask if she’d like to go for coffee or a movie with you. As you get to know each other, you can decide whether or not to keep seeing each other. You might even just end up with a new friend.
Find~out where she hangs~out, then go see her next I would make eye contact, give her the look,and a smile, then look away when she catches your. done! Keep going there for a couple of weeks, then someday when you get your nerve~up, introduce yourself and just hi, my name is.. Tell her she has pretty eyes. Girls love it for a guy to notice their appearance, they love the guy to focus on them. then ask her if she want's to go for an ice~cream or somthing.
At 17 you're just learning what to expect when trying desperately to communicate what it is that you need from the opposite sex. Slow down. Think about what "she may want" and then you'll have the tools you need to open dialog that might be affective. When you understand that a female at that age requires a lot of emotional support then you will understand what it is that you have that you can show or offer her. You'll win her in the end. Good luck. God's speed.
Ask and you shall receive. It takes faith. I will not go into all the aspects of any situation, bottome line. You need Jesus Christ as you Lord and Savior.
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