I have a crush on my boss's boss. Is this wrong? Am i being stupid?
I stare at him so much every time he's passing by, he probably thinks I'm some weirdo creep.
Today he was passing by and he mentioned how me and him were both the only ones wearing all black, and then he was like "hi, how are you?". And suddenly I turned into this giggly teenage girl again - how embarrasing!
He's probably at least 35-40 yrs by the way. But I totally have the hots for him. Is this wrong? Am I a horrible person for feeling this way?
Answer:
Hi, there is nothing wrong to have a crush with anyone regardless of the age, provided that you are not a cause for future problems. My wife (before I married her) told me once that she had a crush with a man 25 years older than she is. She had fun admiring him from a far because she learnt that he is married. However, she puts a stop to this whole crush thing because there was always a possibility that that crush will go a step further which was falling in love. She simply doesnt want to be a marriage wrecker. I guess it is normal as a young 19 year old girl to have such a feeling... being impressionable towards someone who I can say rather "exotic". However, I am sure you will be happier with someone around your age. But again... if you still want to carry that crush to the next level, check to ensure that your Greek guy is not attached to anyone and that he is free to reciprocate your feelings. However, stay free from him if he has someone else. It is good to find out because you can never know that you might incidentally bring your "crush" stage to the next level. Anyway, I am sure there are many more Greek guy around your age that you can explore and have a more committed relationship. Whatever it is, the decision lies in you ... Good Luck!
Hell no. I'd act on it. Flirt with him, find out if he is married, then get on that.
its not so bad that you have the crush, it depends how much older than you he is. if you act on this crush, then you are being stupid. especially is he is married.
No, you are not horrible, you are a normal girl who is affected by this hot older guy. Better check out his marital status before you get too into him though. Otherwise, just enjoy the eye candy and the flirting.
Well it's not wrong but probably stupid.
haha!No gurl sometimes you have to go for what you like!But becareful!I was like that but make sure he's not married!
you are not at all stupid, if you really like him, go for him. age does not affect love
You can't help who you are attracted to.but you are truly mature when you can control those urges and not act on them when they might cause you problems in your life. If we act on what we want in life, rather than what is best for us, we end up with a lifetime of regrets.
Well, it is just natural for somebody to have a crush for
another person. But you have to be very careful because
it can lead to something which in the end you will be feeling
very sorry. He is old enough to be your father and i suppose
that he is already a family man and to intrude into his life is
morally wrong. Just keep the fantasy to yourself alone and
you'll see that it will just pass and hopefully in your office
you will be able to find someone much more good looking
and of your age.
no, its okey. crush is still a crush.you are free to feel that way, unless you commit adultery or bigamy. but don't forget that you're only dreaming of something impossible
no it just means that you like him there's no shame in that even if you do have he hots for him.
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