How do I become mentally stronger?
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I think talking to your girlfriend would help...does she like him? Does she reciprocate? If not, and if she gives a ** about him, then there's nothing for you to worry about, right? I guess I'm saying this coz I sense you are worried about losing her to him...and that's why the best thing would be to be open with her about it.
Hope this helps...
Good luck!
Think posirively. Get a few Word Find Books and get busy.
Overcoming insecurities has to come from within. We all have them, we all have to deal with them, but the issue that comes into play is one of self-worth.
You have to believe with all of yourself that you are a good person, that your girlfriend likes you, and won't leave you for some other guy. Obsessing over the question is only going to make you worry about it more, increasing your anxiety over something that probably isn't going to happen anyway!
Figure out what you like about yourself. Are you funny? Do you have a talent? Are you a good friend? Do you believe strongly in things? Do you think you're dazzlingly attractive?
Whatever it is, learn to love aspects of yourself. When you love someone else, you don't love everything about them. There can be certain aspects you love, and certain ones you can't stand. But despite the things you may not like about them, you know that they are a good person, and you love them despite whatever shortcomings they may have. It works the same way with yourself. The good things about you will undoubtedly outweigh the negatives, so learn what they are and love them. The benifit here is that once you recognize the things you don't like, you have the power to change them.
If this guy is going after someone else's girlfriend, I think he has a few problems and insecurities of his own. Try to see him as a person instead of some kid that you hate. If you understand him more, he will become less of a problem for you as well.
Good luck!
focus more on what you want to happen more than what you do not want to happen. i cant expound on this further but try to understand what i just said.
well 1 is to stop enjoying humilating fantasies.
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