Character traits of a person wirth a very untidy house?
His house is a mess, very untidy, not too clean either. As is the garden, could be a lovely house too. He is a hottie, gets many girls. He is so sweet, a really good bloke who I adore but I dont think he is as confident as he makes out he is.
Anyone any ideas of why the messy house, how can someone live like that. I never comment, he lives there, not me. Thaanks you guys.
Answer:
There could be many reasons for his problem (and it is a problem). Could be he was a 'mummy's boy', and never learnt the value of cleanliness. He could be a bit lazy, or he could be a bit of a pig and enjoys living in filth.
OR
He could have laid a carefully staged trap for you, in the hope you'll offer to sort his problem out and become his girlfriend.
Good luck.
i have a very untidy house also and i too am popular and busy all the time (no time to clean)
i always have a full schedule and several invites for holidays etc....its a hard life.......; )
Maybe he spends too much time on himself and his looks instead of his home?Maybe he is just lazy or maybe he is just really busy and never home and always on the go
Housekeeping and Landscaping are not his priorities and probably never will be. This is who he is and what he is about. He is obviously not ashamed of it, so if you want to be a part of his life, you had better find out if he expects his future significant other to be the housekeeper and landscaper, or if he wishes her to wallow in the muck as he does.
And, this is not necessarily a "guy thing", my very male, macho husband is a neat freak, I'm the slob, I have had to make severe adjustments to accommodate his lifestyle of squeaky clean. The 20 years have been much worth it.
He's a guy and most of us ARE total slobs.
For the longest time we had 3 piles of clothes. Clean, doesn't stink too bad, and burn these.
That's just how guys are. It could also be he's just too busy. Not much 'home time' right now.
It means housework isn't a priority is what it means. If you don't like it, don't have him as a friend...especially if you find him "tasty".
He won't change...and if you partner up with someone like that and you are two extremes, your lives won't be so happy if you make that an issue...so either clean up after him and be happy about it, or find someone that gives it a big priority like you do, if you do.
I like a clean house too...but with 3 kids messing it up I'm not wasting my entire life picking up after them...when they are grown and gone I'll have my beautiful, perfectly clean house...and will probably miss the **** out of them!
Laziness. Or this bloke has been cared for his entire life by a mother who never expected him or any other male to lift a finger to help with the house work.
Men need to be taught. Unless you want him to be an obsessive compulsive disordered person who won't have sex with you unless you put a plastic cover on the sheets I'd butt out.
Maybe he is just too busy with the ladies to keep it clean!
If I was judge on the cleaniness of my house...I would flunk big time!!
I have noticed in my extensive studies that people with untidy houses always seem to have arrogance by the bucketful
i myself am humble, mild,modest and very very attractive but this cannot be construed as arrogance as i have a very tidy house
they say tidy house tidy mind- obvious he has an inner mind problem maybe or its not of importance to him.
I agree with the woman who wrote that it isn't necessarily a "guy thing".
My house has dust balls in the corners and piles of books, and research, amongst my gym shoes and shopping lists piled up around the coffee table.
My brother and father were "white glove" tidy and none of them ever left a toilet open or had dust anywhere. No dishes left overnight, etc. etc. (i have learned not to leave toilets open from them!)
Try looking at it from a different perspective- When the day finally comes, and you are lying on your death bed thinking back on your life, would you be likely to say, "Gee, I wish I had spent more time cleaning my house and mowing my lawn."? Me either! So stop worrying about this guy's housekeeping ability or lack thereof, and start focusing on what the really important things in life are.
mother says messy house = messy mind
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