Why is my bestfriend soo controlling and all she wants to do is gossip?



Answer:
Because your friend is a biyatch most likely. Its alirght some of my friends are like that too. But i still want to be friends cause ihave a good time when im out, so i just deal with it. And let them know if something is bothering me. If it really bothers you maybe its time you find a new best friend. Otherwise just accept the way the person is and deal with it. lots of times when we are young we make friends, but as we get older, different qualities develop, and sometimes you outgrow friends.
um, she's insecure?
My grandmother had a saying--"show me who your friends are, and I'll show you who you are". Most of the time that's true. Like tends to stick to like. Your friend may not realize that she is bossy. Maybe you will have to be brave and tell her when she crosses the line. If she's telling you the truth about something, that's not gossip. If you think she's exagerrating, stop her and say "I have enough problems of my own, I don't want to hear about someone else's life".
because she has to be in control and have power over people.
If you think she's controlling then are you sure you should still be best friends? Well anyway she shouldnt be gossiping, gossip is for people whos lifes are so boring they have to go around talking about someone elses.

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