What´s stopping us?

Both of us know that breaking up would be the reasonable thing to do, but although we have tried to do so many times, we have now been together for 8 years. Now we are breaking up again for the umpteenth time, but one of us is crying, the other starting to have psychosomatic symptoms...in the past we tried to leave each other for other people, but in the end we still didn´t leave each other...

Answer:
It sounds a lot like a karmic relationship. Can't do with can't do without. That usually indicates past life bonds extending to this life for a specific reason. Something to accomplish together or resolve.
On the other hand, it could denote strong feelings; after all you’ve been together 8 long years, quite some time for a “casual’ relationship. Have, you two, talked about this situation?
Leaving your comfort zone, worried about being alone, worried you won't find a relationship the same - lots of reasons. But it's clear you're not in a healthy or happy relationship so a clean break and not being in contact for a long time would be the best option all round.
Either the sex is too good or you are both losers who can't find anyone else.

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