Have you ever felt like you don't have many friends? How would you deal with this feeling?
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To have a friend you 1st have to be a friend to someone and it will come back to you.
My hubby is truly my best friend - his love and friendship is complete and unconditional. He has stuck with me through the best and worst times of my life. I don't have many friends I can say this about.
Quality friendships are better than quantity!!
Tell myself: stop being picky and go out and get some friends :)
You make yourself your best friend. Or you get a pet. Many super intelligent people didn't have many friends or had none at all and they made great strides in life, cures for diseases and such. You know, your best friend could be books or music or anything you really like doing. However it is good to get out once in a while. You can always spend some time in instant messages and try out making some acquaintances and sharing ideas.
No all it takes is talking to people that like the same things I like to make a friend.
Just make new friends, the easiest resolution to the solution. Just act nice and don't ever be picky (that emotion may cause your downfall of having friends).
If you feel like this often, than try hanging out with a completely different group of people. If they aren't your type than go find another group... and so on.
I WAS ALWAYS THE TYPE TO BE SURROUNDED BY FRIENDS, 42 YEARS NOW TRYING TO FIND MYSELF AND FEEL AT MY BEST WITHOUT FRIENDS BECAUSE YOU'RE CONSTANTLY LISTENING TO PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS AND FORGETTING YOURSELF AND LOTS OF NEGATIVITY THAT'S NOT GOOD FOR PROGRESS.
I don't have many friends, and I'm fine with it. IT gets lonely sometimes, but then I pray. That forces me to think about my life and what i do have, compared to others who might be worse off. Then i turn on the tv, and well, i really feel better about myself, or listen to the radio to acheive this. Besides, most people(even the social butterflies of the world), only have a few good friends, the rest are just acquaintances. Most only even have one or two best friends. So in that sense, we're all the same, no one really has many friends that we can actually call friends, so then after relizing that, I feel lucky that atleast I have friends, because while some might have many friends which in reality are only few; there are many people who don't have any friends...and that would suck in my opinion.
I have no friends where I live for 7 years now..I have 2 grandchildren and I seem to get all the love I require from them. I need to go get new clothes and how nice it would be to have a girl friend help me like in the olden days, but I don't, my bad choice in life. I am retired. I have my PC and free long distance but its not the same..you need FRIENDS!!!
I just try to meet people and hope thye like me too
Well, I know I've had this feeling before. And when your in that situation, people just say stop being picky and make friends. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. If it did, then we'd all have a lot of friends. A lot of people don't realize that you can't just walk on up to any person and say "Want to be my friend?" That's not necessarily how you make friends. Remember, you have your own, unique personality. Friends are people who have a personality similar to yours. So that means you pretty much have to find people that have the same or related personality is yours. And that isn't always easy at times. Now since I can't plagarize words from someone else's website, here's what I would recommend:
http://www.wikihow.com/make-friends...
I thought this was a very good page about how to make friends. It was very up to the point, but had a variety of options just incase your not comfortable with one. Hope this helps!
I don't have a lot of friends compared to some of my friends but do you have to have a lot of friends or is it the quality of friendship that's important? I have a friend that I've had for over 25 years and one other friend I had for over 42 years died. So even though I don't' have a lot of friends the ones that I do have have been very long standing. So I think about the quality of the friendships not so much the quanity.
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