Thoughts about marriage?
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When I was your age I was really scared of the idea of sex. When I got older, it wasn't a big deal. Not all boys are sex crazed at your age - maybe you are the kind of person who needs to be in love with a person before you have sex with them...
You are still young.. Live Life a few more yrs single so you can get to know about urself before locking yourself down to marriage.. Worry about college and your career .. not marriage.. you are too young hun...
You're simply nervous and anxious about the idea. Many people are afraid of new experiences. When the time comes, when you find that special person who turns your life inside out, you won't have any problem. Promise. It happened to me too. I was just too afraid to say anything about it. I have been married 26 yrs today!
Sexual prowess is a big issue these days. It's almost as though people expect everyone to be 'ready' at the drop of a hat, when in fact that should not be an issue. I don't think your unusual in any way. In fact, I believe you're seeing life as it really should be. Some people cannot stand the sense of running their life on a whim and would prefer to take things as they come. This is a subject that bares much thought, and what you feel is 'just that'. You will change, but right now its important to see yourself as normal because you put other things first. You'll get to sexual relations...but later.
yeah -- you have all the time in the world as they say --
Just relax and go with the flow -- you don't need to have a "timeline" about when you feel you should get married. . .
when I was younger I thought I was getting married when I was 21 -- here I am 30 and no where near it!!
Sex is heavy stuff too!! Take your time -- explore yourself (if you want to) then go on to "bigger and better" things. . .
That's weird... usually, parents would not want their kids to think of sex when they are 17. Parents tend to talk to their kids about safe sex because they know their kids would do it anyways, so they rather have their kids do it safe then unsafe. But if you feel uncomfortable about it, you parents should be happy.
Don't worry, once you officially get passed puberty and maybe in love (real love, not puppy love), you will have a chance to form your own opinion about sex. It depends on you whether you think this is a problem, because you know yourself better than your parents. And so what if your parents think it's a problem? What are they going to do? Hook you up with a hooker? You have plenty of time in your life. Your parents should be encouraging you to focus on college and life rather than sex. Brush it off!!
no matter what you do in life its all going to have a psychological responce on you thats how we grow and get wise and be human its a part of life but if you dont want to have sex then that is totally up to you but i think you have a problem and you are scared it would be best for you to go and get some help because you sound like you have a bit of a phobia about sex
I do feel that sex is necessary in marriage because it brings the couple closer together. It is hard to explain the feeling that you get from sex (emotional)
but without sexual contact i think a couple would feel unloved, unwanted, and unattractive. I think sex helps to fill these gaps in a relationship (if in love) and it helps you express your love for your partner and bring you closer together making you more of a whole
50% marriages end in failure, i plan to never marry or have sex. works ok with me
You have a choice of two psychological responses; like or dislike. The problems arise in how you physically and emotionally interact with others. Sex is a hormone activated biological drive for making babies. It's totally over rated as an activity but babies are great. There are two major problems with them though, their expensive and grow up too be adults.
You are fine and there is nothing the matter w/you first of all.Enjoy your youth while you have it,take advantage of being young and get the best of your youth.Sexual relations is something that is to be shared with your spouse,someone that you love and care about,and having intercourse before marriage can at time cause problems w/your future spouse.When you meet that person in your life you know it and will feel comfortable with that one.So for now do not trouble yourself anticipating something that you are not ready for.There are so many other important things in life besides having sex,set goals for yourself any do not give in to peer pressure,and most of all enjoy your youth and vitality.
Your parents generation deal with sex in a different way I think. There were times of "no rules" and no constraints or. you're sick. Some places were more Beatles and others more Stones but, sexual revolution happened.
Today balance is searched other religions are not only "funny" but also call for... chastity, harmony and other big words that sound like monsters to some people, well a lot of people... doesn't matter. what really is important is to be aware that through sex you emotions and soul will desirably be there. Or if they don't you might get hurt or hurt others.Sex is important and no conscious psychologist would ever tell you the opposite.
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