What personality traits attract us? When we meet someone new, what generally makes us want to be friends??
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well i definitely look for someone who is friendly ( smiles, easy to talk to), someone with a sense of humor, and not one bit shallow. :]
generally i think we are attracted to people similar to ourselves but that possess the traits we are lacking in. complimenting personalities and such.
Funny and friendly.
what attracts us is the looks, not being afraid of girls.
friendly
sense of humor
intelligence
do not bragg
its actaully 'vibrations' that attract us to ppl. everyone is, if you llok at it from this point of view, bundles of energy (vibrations) and people attract people who vibrate at the same level of them. theres the saying 'opposites attract' which is kind of true for personalities.. you're born with your personality traits and some are acquired. but on a vibrational level likes attract likes.
Confident, well-spoken, sensual, intelligent and humorous .. these are the personalities I look for in a friend and in an ideal boyfriend.
As creatures of habit, we tend to get close to others who fit into the schemas we have learned in the past. I may see someone who looks interesting but not know how to connect because we may have different patterns of behavior. If you think about women who end up in abusive relationships, you find that they grew up in abusive households. Their parents were abusive, and their grandparents were abusive. When certain cycles of behavior is all one knows, it is easiest to gravitate to what feels familiar. Thus, the abused child ends up in the same situation because it fits her life experience. History repeats itself unless you are wise enough to catch your maladaptive patterns and conciously decide to change what you know and form new experiences, cycles and relationships.
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