Is it worth it to be nice to someone when you know there not going to be nice back?
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Yes I try to be nice to most people or just treat them with neutrality. You are doing it for yourself not for the other person. I don't expect anything in return and if that is the only reason you are kind then it is time to examine your own value system because it seems rather wonky.
yes. you would just be the bigger person, and would never regret life being nice to othe rpeople. however, if this person isn't very nice, they are most likely suffering from low self-esteem. so if they have someone be kind to them, it might be contagious. so do the right thing, and be kind to everyone. :]
Depends on what you mean by "worth it" - what are looking to get out of the experience? If all you want is to know you were a better person, then yeah.
If you are looking to change a jerk into a nice person then you are wasting your time.
Why would you? Anything up your sleeve?
To me it is always worth it to maintain my composure and treat people in the manner in which I would like to be treated. If I follow that rule (which is difficult at times) then I would never have anything that I would need to appologize about or feel badly about.
Yes, Being kind is always the right thing to do no matter what. And is never a wasted effort. Kindness goes further in this world than you could ever imagine. It's okay to do it for yourself and the other person. It doesn't matter who you do it for, it's just the act of doing it. That's why it's called "Acts of Kindness".
The 'Law Of Karma' states that 'One must fulfill all his actions due unto others withou any expectations whatsoever'.
If you cultivate the habit of putting your best for everything you do without ever expecting any returns for your actions, you'll achieve a splendid state of mind wherein you'll never feel sorrow/sadness for actions performed by others nor will you rejoice at your own success or other peoples fault.
When you do good to somebody, the same person need not do the same to you. But, good will follow you ultimately from some other person you may not even know.
ALWAYS REMEMBER - Do good unto others & good shall follow you. Whatever we do today - good or bad, will only reap the fruits tomorrow.
Depends on that person. What i would do is make them wonder why your being nice to them, when there being such an ***. And I smile and walk away. Knowing they have no cule what your smiling about/ or laughing your *** off. GOT IT !
You catch more flies with honey then vinegar. So keep being nice to her and in a perverse way that will annoy her more.
If they are not nice tell them loudly that you are glad you ahve really nice friends that treat you nice and always have frindly faces.
Then ignore whomever ignored you unless you have to get the last word in again.
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