When it comes to relationships, have you mostly broken up or the one that got left?
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If you don't want to spend the rest of your life with the person you are in a relationship with, why would you continue dating them? There is no reason to be in a relationship you don't like. Life is too long to be miserable. If you want to have some fun, have some fun in the relationship, but once it turns sour get out.
Don't settle on someone you "just kind of like". No love=no relationship. The only way you can have a relationship work the way you want is to be happy with the one you are with. Don't pity date, don't date because you don't want to be alone, don't think you can change someone, don't "put up" with someone.
I have only had a few real relationships, in which I was semi-left several times, but she finally found someone more her style and mentality. I probably would be the one who is dumped because I can't find it in myself to do that to a girl I love and I'm fine with that. As far as how to change that, the only way I can imagine is to not care and love her so much that she could hurt me.
Hmmm... I guess I've only been dumped once, if I remember correctly. I haven't had a lot of relationships though, quality over quantity. Since I am pretty good at picking good guys, we never parted on bad terms, either. I still hold in high esteem most of my exes, and the ones I don't hold in high esteem, I at least don't harbor any anger towards.
I have done all of the breaking up, sadly the relationships i have been in were pretty bad even somewhat abusive. I do take responsibility in the choices i made. And hope to make better choices in the future.
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