Most men in relationship are the one's who initiate sex are you the initiator or is your partner?
i'm usually the initiator with my partner of 4 yrs. I enjoy making love with him so much!! I t just seems like he knows exacly how i like it and how to do it. Sometime i think i might be obsessed over his lovemaking & sometimes i feel bad that i have to ask him for it. How can i get him to notice that i want him to make love to me without sounding like that's all i want from him or that i'm addicted to it etc?? when we've gotten in arguments he uses it against me & calls me a **. Lately he's been the one initiating it- it's gotten to the point that he thinks i might be having sex with someone else because i don't ask for it anymore like i used to. Heck i won't even go down on him because of how he makes me feel when we fight and he throws it in my face. HELP! what should i do to tell him when i want it?? He's a really sweet, romantic guy but there are just some things u just don't say to people. He's said sorry for what he's told me in the past.
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well i sometimes start it...there is nothing wrong with that at all , at all! maybe he likes it when you initiate it...but if he throws it back into your face during arguments, then hit it and quit it, meaning start having sex then like 30 secs later just stop...then say oh i forgot,that makes me a ** or whatever.thatl teach him, if he thinks you are cheating on him now, then be honest about the whole thing about how you hate it when he brings it up in fights, and if you want to start it, then trick him into starting it...turn him on
I think you need to talk to him about this and reach a compromise and agreement. This does happen in relationships and reaching an understanding can eliminate any uncertainties and confusion. A little less mystery and a little more agreement will solve this.
My girl often tries to initiate it, but it seems she does it when I'm busy. So she doesn't really get any results most of the time. The other times, I initiate it.
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well i sometimes start it...there is nothing wrong with that at all , at all! maybe he likes it when you initiate it...but if he throws it back into your face during arguments, then hit it and quit it, meaning start having sex then like 30 secs later just stop...then say oh i forgot,that makes me a ** or whatever.thatl teach him, if he thinks you are cheating on him now, then be honest about the whole thing about how you hate it when he brings it up in fights, and if you want to start it, then trick him into starting it...turn him on
I think you need to talk to him about this and reach a compromise and agreement. This does happen in relationships and reaching an understanding can eliminate any uncertainties and confusion. A little less mystery and a little more agreement will solve this.
My girl often tries to initiate it, but it seems she does it when I'm busy. So she doesn't really get any results most of the time. The other times, I initiate it.
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