Reasons for the failure of your love ?
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- loving too much (not giving them enough space, caring too much, perhaps seeming clingy. am improving.)
- possessiveness (combination of my insecurities and their personality/nature.)
- not controlling anger well. (still learning to be calm during conflicts when I feel hurt)
- too many expectations and needs. (still learning to accept the person with their faults and know that not all our needs will be satisfied, in the way we want them to be satisfied)
- selecting the wrong kind of people to date. chemistry isn't everything. sometimes attraction is based on things that aren't really great...eg. smooth talkers, or a detached, unpredictable person. they also have to have other mature qualities that carries a relationship through.
Oh well. I feel it takes a combination of luck and the right choices (in selection of person and also making our daily choices on how to BE. in how we perceive things and behave) to find a great person and where love is strong and mutual.
Selfishness, and emotional projection.
miscommunication and incompatible. he always misread me and i dont think i can get along well with him as our family background are different
I don't like to think Ive failed as such as I still have some relationship with most ex partners rather the love for each other has changed and instead of changing to a more committed ( marriage , children etc) It's changed to friendship. The other partner was violent and I couldn't love him
we lived too far away
im not pretty
misunderstanding
betrayal
telling lies and bending themt to truth
emotional rejection
infatuation
it is not true because its not from the heart
having other partners
not helping your partner when he/she is in danger
seeing your love in a negative view
not spending some time and bringing precious moments
always fighting and cannot compromise
not bringing pleasure
always screaming and yelling for no reason
not bringing care
leaving tem alone in darkness, loneliness, lies, and misery
there are endless reasons
Firstly, lack of trust and secondly, when it is not true.
Sometimes the assumptions we make about people are completely off - so our attempts to make them happy, while well-meaning, are totally counter-productive.
Also, some people believe they don't merit happiness, and so will push away people who love them, and who they love. Dumb as they come, but I believe we invent more new ways to be dumb every year.
And then - it's especially tough when you're a mermaid, and he's a fire-breathing demon from the pit of hell... lots of moisturiser will sort out some of your problems, but not all of them.
Helen
My love didn't fail, it was crushed by the actions of an unprincipled (now ex) wife. While I worked, out of town, she found love in the arms of another man (or men).
CHEATING!
ABUSE!
He was a man.
He wouldnt let me be myself and tried to control me eventually (after 20 years!) my love for him died
GOOD QUESTION...Is the word " OCTOPUS " offensive?
I'm an idealist, a romantic, a daydreamer, spontaneous, fun-loving, self-deprecating, and a social moron.
He's a homebody, practical, hands-on, introverted, boring, self centred, insecure, emotionally abusive, manipulative, passive-aggressive control freak.
Not exactly a match made in heaven.
people change.
Who you did love is not who you love now. What was perfect romance then is not perfect romance now.
Entropy consumes all!
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