I'm working on myself HELP!?

I'm working on myself and my relationships with others. How can I be a better me, or a better person to others? How do I expand, and branch out of the normal people I usually associate with? I want to meet different kinds of people, especially men, just to see where it goes, potential dating. My past relationships have been emotionally abusive, so I'm trying to develope myself more as a person, become more well rounded, gain more confidence and build my self esteem back up, and get to know more people and personalities, hoping to eventually have a real and healthy relationship with a guy that actually treats me right for once. How do I do all these things? How do I develope myself more? Thanks for any input.

Answer:
If you project a confident persona, you will find that people will relate to you in a different manner.

Let people know up-front what you want out of your life and any relationship, and if those expectations are not met, then you will accept that and move on to other activities and other friendships.

You can personally define your own happiness benchmark and stick to that.

Congratulations on choosing to work on yourself, lesson learnt well it seems.

To have better relationships, in future, learn to have a better relationship with your own self, as people only treat us the way we treat ourselves.

Now figure out how you 'really' behave with yourself. So that you can change the people you attract in your life. You are magnet, always remember; though this also gives you the power to change the magnet and hence change your life.

Ask yourself sincerely, "Do I respect and love my self for who I am?" Once we learn to do that we attract people who do the same.

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