Changing my feelings over her, explain?
Any way today I was looking at her, i realised she was looking at me. (without knowing i was looking at her)
Then i just felt this sudden respect for her, like if she were to strip down naked and ask me to do her i would refuse.
Whats going on?, i thought i may be depressed and don't care anymore, anyway what do you think?
Answer:
Your like a dog chasing after a car. You run and run and when you finally get it, what do you do with it? You wanted what you thought you couldn't have and now that there's a possibility, you shy away. You need to know what you want before you go and get it. Make a list of why you liked this girl in the first place and then make a list of why you like her now.
See what stands out most in both lists.
sounds like you really care about her possibly movin into the realms of love.and lookin at how she was loookin at you and then you felt respect its liek she gave you a feelin that she likes you too and you instead of bein embarrased that she caught you loookin just felt respect..its time you had a nice chat with this girl and asked her out somewher, let her know you respect her and enjoy spendin time with her then pop the question lol 'will you go out twith me, or will you be my girlfriend etc etc how ever you would say it where you live
I didn't interpret the fact that you would refuse this girl sexually as meaning you were no longer attracted to her. Instead, I had the sense that you respected her too much to make her just another conquest. I agree with the user LuisaHolloway when she sated stated that you're "Moving into the realms of love".
I think when you begin to fall in love with someone, you suddenly begin to view them in a new light. No longer would just sex be good enough. Perhaps now you long for something deeper. I think that makes you a rarity and speaks well of your character. As the user I have already referenced stated, you should approach this girl. It may lead to a relationship you'll always value.
It's difficult to find someone whom we value. When the opportunity comes, don't let it slip away.
I hope you wind up having an extraordinary relationship with this girl. This relationship may produce memories that you will treasure throughout the course of your life.
Be sure to explain to her what it is you're feeling. It will make her realize the depth of your feelings towards her. I wish you the best.
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