Have you ever felt crippled by indecision? What does that say about a person? And how do you fix it?
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I have been crippled by indecision many times, it's a major fault of mine. Couple things:
If it's not a big decision (like what to wear one day) then just try to see the big picture and realize your life is worth more than agonizing over what are, ultimately, trivial details.
For big decisions, go ahead and take the time to think about what to do. Write down the issues, do some research, ask advice, whatever depending upon the issue. Usually you discover some key point that sways your decision for you.
A person that has trouble making a decision probably wasn't allowed a lot of automony growing up and now looks for an adult figure to make the choice for them.
Part of it might be that you weren't allowed to make decisions when you were growing up, or someone made you feel like you weren't able to make decisions without asking permission first. People are born with an incredible sense of intuition, and if you are encouraged to listen to it, you usually learn to make sensical decisions and to feel confident about your decisions. It's only when your decision making abilities are discredited by others that you learn to doubt yourself.
way too vague,.. is this indecisions like,. lets go to Wendy's or McDonalds?
Or indecision like do you want to have kids or not?
or,. think fast mister,.. cut of a testicle or a hand to survive!
theres various situations and thus i (and honestly) averyone needs a little more info to accurately awnser this one,.. please help us help you :)
Yes, I have. And i am like that right at this moment. I think it is a rather bad thing. You either do something or don't. Spending days or even months thinking ir over is a suffering, I can tell from my own experience.
I think that kind of a person is somewhat insecure and maybe confused about their desires and needs.
In order to fix it, just don't let yourself be indecisive. Take risks. Make quick decisions. Whatever happens, happens :). Risks pay off.
Just remember this: If you don't make the decision, you have made the decision.
its a sign that you don't trust yourself and probably have a hard time trusting others. you have to spend some time by yourslef, listening to your inner voice, trusting it and letting go of any regrets and just do it.
Its called being cautious and it just shows that you are a careful person and like to think a little bit more about decisions.
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