Terrible fear of school?? pls advice??

does anyone else feel terrible anxiety the day before school?? I am so afraid of the people there. Im afraid that they will make fun of me or talk behind my back. I hate HS sooo much you dont even know. I cant stand it, every day, every minute there is terrifying. Im so afraid of the kids and to look stupid. why? why? how to make it stop?

Answer:
Hi,
I work daily with kids who have fear of going to school. The best thing is to talk to your parents to have you seen by somebody professionally. It sounds scary (and it can be), but they are there to help you get over this hurdle and get back on the road to happiness. Everybody has fears, it's what we do with them that makes the difference. You are still young so you are more flexible then most of us oldies ;-). Take the first step and talk to your parents. Ask them to get some help for you.

Good luck to you.
You might have Social Anxiety. I have been there and know the feeling well. Look it up. You might need to talk to a therapist. Let your parents know. It is a real and serious condition and it is better to seek treatment now..you dont want it to carry into adulthood. I allowed it to continue and I became a hermit basically..but now I am back on track. Life is short..figure this thing out now..so you can enjoy your life.
yah same here, but not so much, I only hate it when i get off the bus, but i love it when i c ppl i know
You know I REALLY dislike HS, like ALOT, but it sounds like your problemis really serious. You need a major confidence boost. People judge like crazy in HS, but I think were all kinda crazy and paranoid that "OMG I look so stupid and why did I wear this or say that?" when no one else notices anything. Don't you like anything about it? Sports, clubs, friends, socializing, or even a class? If not then I would find something to like or else it's gonna **** for you. Good luck, I feel your pain, but I don't think as badly... ;-)
Get professional help, soon!
he's how you make it stop. get into a group that understands you. and don't give a f*** about what other people think about you hanging out with them. point is, the only opinion about yourself that matters is yours.
i didnt know you were the most popular kid in school. you must be a real "someone" for people to talk about behind their backs, like is his dad tom cruise, and mother, mother tersa.

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