Human mind?! Likeable person?!?
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you just need to blend in, but not in a way of blending in that you are pretending to be someone else. always remember that you can't please everybody, if they can't like you for who and how you are then they are not deserving of your attention or of your friendship. actually you don't need to train yourself it will be your instinct to adapt to the kind of people around you. :)
Try reading an oldie but goodie - How to win friends and influence people. Dale Carnegie.
are you a nice person? Do you care how people feel? If so, then you have what it takes to reach out to everyone. Believe in yourself first, then other will believe in you also.
There is always the danger, of trying too hard and becoming a pain to those around you.
The fact that you are showing concern, over this, probably means that you are a nice person anyway.
Try to become involved in something where there is no reward, other than the satisfaction of helping. After a while you will find it all comes naturally and you can just be your natural self.
I dont think that you train yorself to be a nice person but i do think that it comes in your genes. I also think that if a person is not likeable by other they have an attitude problem they need to address and this might require help from a therapist.
training is not required to acquire those traits. it's what you are and who you are as a person. it's what's your heart is full of. treat everyone with respect.
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