Do you isolate yourself from others? if som how and why?
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After 3 1/2 years in college and working with whining people in my chosen profession, I made the choice I was sick of dealing with people in general. I spent about 2 years in a state of isolation. I am only now able to help my friends and family of their problems. I didn't return phone calls, emails, or snail mail letter. Everyone in my life wanted help with their problems and refused to take the advice tha tI was willing to give them. I was so sick of seeing how society teaches us to not deal with a problem and take a pill to just cope and force a smile on our faces. It isn't abnormal, but I dont' think it is what I should have done now in retrospect (hind sight is 20-20). I lost a lot about my life that did make me happy when I lost what was annoying to me. I now just fight keeping down about it and try every day to change the views of others...
sometimes..just to feel some solitude and to get comfortable with who im truly am.
well, im doing it rite now as we speak *speak is not quite the rite word to use, huh?*
how? im locking myself in my room, skipped lunch and dinner, not responding to any call or message, not even responding to people calling me outside my room, exactly in front my door.
why? well, tat's the rite question to ask. first, i screwed my acc paper this morning and it's our final exam. it will, indirectly, affect my whole life, because if i screw up beyond repair, then there is every chance that my sponsor wouldnt let me further my study in UK, and i am shouldering my mom's hope as well as myself. i tried to cry because i feel depressed but everyone tried to make me happy. so i held up my tears, laughed along and pretended that everything is fine. everyone else somehow did not seem to feel as bad as i do *well, maybe they are just better pretenders than i am*.
second, in the same day, i slipped and fell after i came out from the toilet. in a split second, i felt i couldnt take it anymore, why must i who have to experience badlucks after the most unlucky day of my life? *u may think im exaggerating*. at the same time all my friends crowing towards me asking wether im fine. all i did was stay there, feel the physicall pain, closed my eyes and cried. again, everyone tried to make me feel okay.. and that is the last thing i want to feel. coz my principal is- if u feel bad, then just admit it. shout, cry, smash things if u need, just dont pretend nothing happened. after that, get over it.
so here i am, typing stupid words, to get over 'it'..
I'm an engineer so I try my best to hide from people so I can work and not have to deal with all the gossip and political office crap
that and computers are just so much easier to deal with
Yes, I do. Why? Fear of others, low self esteem, anxiety. I have only the bare minimum contact with others. I prefer to be at home, or out in the woods.
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