How can i think less about the fantasies im having in my head(read on)??
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Having fantasies is normal, especially at your age.
The more you resist, the more they will persist.
If you don't want the thoughts, then brush them off.
If a fire ash fell on your dress, you would brush it off.
Treat your fantasies and something that will burn you and brush them out of your head. One technique to eliminate thoughts you don't want is to change your thoughts to something else or to think of a fountain of water. When the thoughts come dump them into the fountain. To stay pure of mind is one hell of a battle. I did it for 7 years and it was not easy. Listen to the right voice in your head, not the one that will leed you where you don't want to go. Just know that pleasure sometimes leeds to pain. You will need to be strong willed to resist temptation if that is what you want.
Just know that you are normal in desire. I still have desire but don't act upon them.
Rev. TomCat
Your 17 its normal to have these fantasies. It is part of growing up.
I personally do not see anything wrong with having fantasies. Many people have them. It's normal.
dont wory dude they are quite normal.
im 18 nd still going thru dis phase though not as extreme as u hav....lolz.
bt don wory n enjoy life
roll it ovr easy and go with it. u r a man. act like the man u r and become worthy of increasing your pride. u may b the king but she only breeds with strongest male. She has pride 2
its normal
Do something that requires concentration like playing a sport like volleyball. Read site below which tells how psychologists have studied this and found this is the secret to be really happy.
This also causes someone to be in the present. Go help some people. Do yoga. Do, do do. Then learn meditation so you can being doing nothing and yet still be concentrated.
Hormones have much to do with this, I am sure. But... since there is no way to eliminate the cause of the fantasies, maybe you can set aside some time when you allow your fantasies to play out in your mind, and the rest of the time, focus your mind on what you are doing at that time. It will take some intellectual discipline, but you can do it, I know you can!
Embrace your fantasies, u don't need to act on them as you have said.
Its just part of growing up and realising how powerful and enjoyable sex can be, plus a healthy imagination is great to have too
You sound like a healthy normal 17yr old mind to me. I think I was slightly younger at 15-16 when I started having fantasies. It is harmless and all part of your personal growth and sexual maturity. I would say just enjoy them and don't feel guilty. I can understand you feeling embarrassed and keeping it private as it is a very personal thing but don't ever feel guilty - we all have them!
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