Why do some people choose negative behaviours?
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yep a lot of people who grew up the negative side of life but i guess its for them to change and for us positive people to show examples of the goodness of being not the way they are, this what make the humans interesting.
its their nature
I would have to say it is what they are use to or have been programmed to live and live by.
When you see three different children living in a house and all the children have different personalities however the parent treats all three children same... they won't look for the negative however when they are all treated in a different way...like Chris is always such a good boy or Laurie is always bad and always doing.. A pattern is being put in place.
Some adults are strong enough to program themselves to live their own lives and fall out of that pattern and then there are the ones that have never had the tools to self teach or know that its okay to have their own opinion.
A cycle begins...
just my thoughts....
Negative attention getting can become a habit that people carry into adulthood. Also... some people really need counseling and cannot find it (ie: cannot afford it, etc)... so they run around talking about their problems and hoping that somebody will help them.
Sometimes people use negative behavior to mask their true feelings. Instead of laughing on the outside, crying on the inside, they will act all tough so nobody will guess that there is a weak frightened child inside.
Some people choose to be victims and negativity breeds drama, which feeds the victim mode. It's a very low vibration!
i see negative behavior as a trend first of all some kid choose to be bad because of it social environment. Some are trying to get their parent attention in another way maybe they were the good kid and didn't get the appraise like they wanted. As now days when you say is it happening to adults think of who you consider an adult when kids are having kid at age of 14 and some younger the influence their child see is what they grow up knowing so it a trend, some might learn later how to properly behave but for most the child will end up like the parents. I say it happening to every age group alot of adults now day are acting this way due to attention or because maybe they had a kid to young and now trying to experience their childhood days again..for example i know a guy he had a kid at age 16 now he doing what i did in college which is party. going out, and just being a kid now. so yes adults are acting that way but because they miss it along their childhood life.
There are lots of reasons that people choose to get negative attention but it's usually because they dont get enough positive attention for one reason or another. Could be depression and they might not even know that they suffer it or another of the hundreds of mental illnesses. People have no patience for 'attention seekers' but no one ever stops to think why someone would behave like that and will just criticise them. Everyone needs attention and if they dont get it they will either become withdrawn or start to become 'a problem'.
Adults aren't victims it's a *negative* choice to seek *negative* attention for *negative* behavior and so what one seeks they will get from people who preach negative social skills.
Children also have choices based on their level of exposure to society which includes their parents.
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