What's going on here?
thats on my bfs myspace title page. i dont think he knows ive seen it. the only issue we had was that he lied about his age because he knew that i wouldnt date someone younger. we did resolve that but i did tell him that hes gonna have to work to gain my trust again. and he said he totally would wait and work through it with me. we've been together as bf/gf for 19 days now. weve known each other longer. hes 17. so im trying to figure out what that means. also: how do i get my bf to stop talking to his ex (not flirting but just like once a month) without him really knowing because i dont want him to lie to me. he says they talk like
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i know before i said to stay with him (and then the whole meeting his friends thing) but now it seems that you guys relationship wont get anywhere , you guys will have your good and bad days but not enough good days. as hard as it is to do if i were you i would end the relationship and move on to find someone who wont lie (as much at least) and someone who wont cause as many problems as this relationship is (race,friends,family,age)
you could give the relationship the original amount you were (the 1 month i think) and then if it doenst get any better then it is best to end it
i hope things work out
Nicki, he lies. he SAYS he lies.
Believe him.
i know you will not believe me yet, but you have wasted 19 days. He will keep lying in many ways. Find someone truthful, who has a better view of relationships.
OK ill help you out me being a guy from what your saying i wouldn't trust him at all he isn't in it for any thing but sex and to have some one there as soon as something better to him comes along you will be out im not saying stop it that's your own decision but sense i have done that once be for and see the same situation with allot of females around me i would say not to invest to much into that relationship
You can only trust someone as much as you trust yourself
he lies to you now and openly admits it on his page, what more proof do you need that he is not going to change the behavior - relationships are not based on lies and mistrust - if so, it is not a relationship. he has lied to you before, you forgave him and moved passed it (mature of you) but he continues to lie. you have only been dating for less than a month - find someone who will be honest like you deserve. if he valued you and your relationship he 1-would not lie, 2- not be talking with his ex, and would have taken the pic of them off of his page immediately. sound like he is using you to fill in time until she moves back home - sorry if that is not what you want to hear.
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