I hate myself, and I hate hating myself. What do I do?
Answer:
this problem is very easy to fix.
follow these directions.
focus you attention on other people that need your help.
Do you understand me? Go volunteer to make someone elses life better. Self absorbtion is because you have too much time to be cosumed in your "own" thoughts.
Change your actions and change your life. This will change the way you feel about yourself.
Anything from mowing a yard for free, to cleaning up a neighbors house, baking cookies or going to an organization and being a part of a program.
believe in yourself
never hate anything ever again
I understand what you're going through
I've never had a boyfriend either.
Anyways, talk to a councler.
or talk to a friend. sometimes a friend can help the most.
i'm sure you don't really want to talk to your parents, but if you do, talk to them. they might be a little help.
Girl you need to chill out. You got your entire life ahead of you. You have too much goin for you to be freakin out at such a young age. So you have never had a boyfriend - big deal. So you feel like a hippo (that must mean you are fat) start taking a walk every day and try to cut down on sweets and junk food. Make it a way of life. And your family treats you like dirt. So what. They are just jealous of you. You can do the right thing though. Treat them nice. Dont let their bad attitude give you a bad attitude. Set some goals for yourself and accomplish them. You are stronger, smarter, and better than you think. Go for it. Dont let the bad dayz get you down. I know that you got it in you. David.
Is it you who hates you or that you think people hate you? You are the only one who can fix this dilemma, with the help of others.
Yes a counsellor is definitely a first step in the right direction, and if you feel uncomfortable about talking to a stranger you would be surprised but your friends are really great listeners and supporters when you need them (that's what friendship is all about being there for each other).
It doesnt matter if you are large or small, you are you. It's not about how you look but who you are, the person you are and how you live.
The most prettiest skiniest person in the world is proberbly the most ugliest person inside.
My best advice for you is to take one minute at a time one hour and one day at a time until you feel comfortable, set small goals ( going for a walk in nature, feeling the natural energies around you) then work on other goals.
A boyfriend is not what will make you complete, it is you and you are the only one who knows your own strengths.
Smile even if you feel sad inside, because tomorrow is another day and another chance to change the path of life you are walking along.
Omg You are a very good girl and you now why you havnt had a bf? its becasue they are so jealous of you!! You are a very good girl and so what if your family treats you bad!! You have other people more important and you now hwta you need? A VACATION!! And you now what everything will be ok maybe try a dating site for a boy with a heart! maybe a theripist too. I go to one sometimes they really help. You now you are probably a gawgus girl and boys are probably jealous!! You need to be more optimistic it will help you in life!! It makes you think about the good stuff not the bad!! it seams as if that is what you are doing! My mom always says like it live it love it!!
I have been through alot to but make alot out of life you only got one so life it to da fullest.
There is one person in the world who loves you...Me
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