Do you know anybody that blames who they are and what they do on others?
I really don't know how to respond to someone who blames bad things that happened previously in their lives on how miserable they feel now. I empathise, and sympathise yet the person continues to use others past poor behavior to dictate them now and they don't see their future in any optomistic way.
Answer:
Don't judge these people until you have walked in their shoes for awhile! It may be different than it seems from the outside.
Yep, I know a few and they are all losers.
Yes. I do know several people who are exactly like that. You cannot change them. They don't know how to change and if you try to give a positive perspective, they are likely to rebuff you. People like those are so accustomed to being negative that every word of encouragement that you offer will be met with another negative response. The solution? Simply tell them that you don't want to watch them wallow in self-pity and so you can't be around them because it affects you negatively. Be a friend as much as you can, but don't let them bring you down. Suggest counselling but don't be surprised if they get angry at you for even mentioning it.
i do know someone who is like that my kid brother.nothing is never their fault.its call they need 2 grow up and quit with the pity party..what they don't see is everyone has has it bad in their life at one point or another they need 2 suck it up and keep moving.those kind of people are the ones who in up in jail at least once or in a nut house..good luck
Yeah, my husband's ex-wife. Their oldest son drowned when he was not quite a year old, and she blamed everyone else, including their 3 and 4 year old daughters. It was just a freak think. She had an affair after they had 3 more children, and when they went for marriage counseling, she told my husband that if he were more like her boyfriend, thier marriage would work! My husband has custody of all 5 of his kids, and she never pays a dime of child support. When the kids visit her, she tells them she can't do this or do that because their dad never gives her any money!! We fully support the kids, but she always felt that he should give her money when she had visitation!! She is such a b1tch!
It"s got to be their fault? LOL
people who blame others for their misery are just fearful people full of too much pride
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Answer:
Don't judge these people until you have walked in their shoes for awhile! It may be different than it seems from the outside.
Yep, I know a few and they are all losers.
Yes. I do know several people who are exactly like that. You cannot change them. They don't know how to change and if you try to give a positive perspective, they are likely to rebuff you. People like those are so accustomed to being negative that every word of encouragement that you offer will be met with another negative response. The solution? Simply tell them that you don't want to watch them wallow in self-pity and so you can't be around them because it affects you negatively. Be a friend as much as you can, but don't let them bring you down. Suggest counselling but don't be surprised if they get angry at you for even mentioning it.
i do know someone who is like that my kid brother.nothing is never their fault.its call they need 2 grow up and quit with the pity party..what they don't see is everyone has has it bad in their life at one point or another they need 2 suck it up and keep moving.those kind of people are the ones who in up in jail at least once or in a nut house..good luck
Yeah, my husband's ex-wife. Their oldest son drowned when he was not quite a year old, and she blamed everyone else, including their 3 and 4 year old daughters. It was just a freak think. She had an affair after they had 3 more children, and when they went for marriage counseling, she told my husband that if he were more like her boyfriend, thier marriage would work! My husband has custody of all 5 of his kids, and she never pays a dime of child support. When the kids visit her, she tells them she can't do this or do that because their dad never gives her any money!! We fully support the kids, but she always felt that he should give her money when she had visitation!! She is such a b1tch!
It"s got to be their fault? LOL
people who blame others for their misery are just fearful people full of too much pride
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