Sarcasm in the home.?
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Sarcasm is deep, unresolved anger. People use it as a passive-aggressive weapon to get back at others and pretend that there's some humor involved - or cleverness. If you're aware of it and take care to resolve your own anger, you'll be fine. And congrats for being smart enough to see it and avoid it!
then be individual and stop copying them
Sarcasm is good, as long as you don't hurt peoples feelings.
A certain level of sarcasm shows intelligence, bear that in mind!
yes, a little well used sarcasm can be enjoyable and funny, but when it's all the time or directed towards someone it's one of the most awful things to be around. I don't know how old you are, but you have control over what comes out of your mouth and that is an excellent lesson to learn very early on.
leave home as soon as you can and meanwhile try to tune it out. recognising it is a very good thing, well done.
lol only if you let it... you have a choice, you can take responsibilty for yourself and your actions, or you can blame your parents!!
i think the best thing will be to get clear about who you are and how you wish to act - then do it.
honour and respect your parents
emma x
tell this to your parents! if they understand, they'll do their best to stop
I asked my parents why they always picked on me and they said that's why they had me. It's a joke, well, sort of. Their parents picked on them religiously, so I guess it's some unwritten right they have. My parents said I had thin skin when I was in high school and everything set me off, but then that set me off too. Just be calm, ignore them if they're going to pick on you and be sarcastic with what you say or do. Soon you'll be able to move out. And all sarcasm isn't meant to be mean, sometimes it just comes off like that. After being the brunt of many family members' jokes, you just try to let it slide off you. And then, you compile little tidbits of information to throw back at them when they pick on you. Don't worry, you'll be able to move out eventually!
move out then.
I have a relation who is sarcastic to his sister. His sarcasm over the years has totally knocked her self-esteem and self confidence. I can't believe the jibes he throws at her when shes speaking, its pathetic. He doesn't do it to me because he knows he cant get away with it.
Good for you that you don't want to be sarcastic when you're older, just being aware of it will enable you to avoid doing it.
Sarcasm is not clever
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YOU HAVE RECOGNIZED THE PROBLEM...DO NOT ACT LIKE THAT. BE AN INDIVIDUAL AND TRY TO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. BY YOU RECOGNIZING THIS WHY YOU ARE YOUNG YOU CAN GET A HANDLE ON IT SO YOU WON'T HURT OTHERS. IT IS TOO BAD YOUR PARENTS DON'T RECOGNIZE HOW THEY COULD BE HURTING PEOPLE UNINTENTIONALLY!! MAYBE YOU CAN HAVE AN ADULT CONVERSATION W/YOUR PARENTS. I HAD TO DO THAT TO MY MOM AND I JUST LET HER KNOW LIKE WHEN WE OUT IN A RESTAURANT AND SHE DID THAT TO THE WAITER OR WAITRESS! SHE ACTED HURT AT FIRST WHEN I SAID SOMETHING, BUT SOON STRAIGHTENED RIGHT UP AND TO THIS DAY IF SHE DOES THAT I CALL HER ON IT. PEOPLE DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED THAT WAY.GOOD LUCK..
Like we care. Just kidding. You've recognized their habits, and realize how irritating it is. That's a start. How I'd remedy this is act like what they said is actually what they meant. This will ultimately annoy them but I bet they want to be understood so in trying to be understood, they'll alter their communication skill. G'luck.
Wow, crushed and swept away from sarcasm! I didnt know sarcasm could cause such damage to a person. I could probably guaranty that what you are witnessing with your parents may not in fact be sarcasm. Possibly have a talk with your parents about how you are feeling.
Sarcasm is great. I find sarcasm very funny.
Of course i only use it when i know the other person will get it. Me and my partner are very sarcastic and we have a great relationship. We never argue, because we just end up laughing at each others sarcasm
Sarcasm is a way to find pleasure out of a crap situation!
Hey,it's ok to be sarcastic,just try to stop yourself when you feel you're going too far. But don't get too bothered over that,remember House!
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