How do you get stronger, how do you get strip off your bad education ?
your parents in a very strange and perfect way never gave you
the chance to assume responsibliltiy - how do you learn that at
very late age? How do learn to acceept your failures that hurt so much ?
Answer:
You sound kinda effed up.
Will power is what you want, and the only way to get that is to deny yourself pleasures.
Not all of them at once, just a few here and there.
The pleasures that you know are bad for you.
You know what I mean.
alcohol is the answer
Don't you dare listen to that... alcohol is NOT the answer!
Deal with the failures and move on. You can only blame the folks for so long... now you are grown, it's time to take responsibility for your actions. Tomorrow is a brand new day!
This is a good question, late in life, not a problem. In life we all must assume some type of responsibility. No matter how small. In order to gain more responsibility, you take on small tasks, and then move up. In your "maturing" you will have to keep yourself on a "score card" if you will. You must make goals for yourself. This is very important. A person without a goal is like a ship out at sea without a rudder or a sail. Start small, make goals, and ask for help and guidance. Find a mentor to help you along the way.
I recommend meditation on a daily basis. For me it has sort of un-done a lot of unhealthy patterns I learned in my childhood. I think it re-wires your brain (I realize this is unscientific, just my experience) to be more creative and calm in the moment, that gives you more choices and you're not on automatic. Then you can learn to take responsibility and move on from failures more quickly, and believe me everyone has them! Good luck.
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the chance to assume responsibliltiy - how do you learn that at
very late age? How do learn to acceept your failures that hurt so much ?
Answer:
You sound kinda effed up.
Will power is what you want, and the only way to get that is to deny yourself pleasures.
Not all of them at once, just a few here and there.
The pleasures that you know are bad for you.
You know what I mean.
alcohol is the answer
Don't you dare listen to that... alcohol is NOT the answer!
Deal with the failures and move on. You can only blame the folks for so long... now you are grown, it's time to take responsibility for your actions. Tomorrow is a brand new day!
This is a good question, late in life, not a problem. In life we all must assume some type of responsibility. No matter how small. In order to gain more responsibility, you take on small tasks, and then move up. In your "maturing" you will have to keep yourself on a "score card" if you will. You must make goals for yourself. This is very important. A person without a goal is like a ship out at sea without a rudder or a sail. Start small, make goals, and ask for help and guidance. Find a mentor to help you along the way.
I recommend meditation on a daily basis. For me it has sort of un-done a lot of unhealthy patterns I learned in my childhood. I think it re-wires your brain (I realize this is unscientific, just my experience) to be more creative and calm in the moment, that gives you more choices and you're not on automatic. Then you can learn to take responsibility and move on from failures more quickly, and believe me everyone has them! Good luck.
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