Why......?

I wonder why my father is always wondering who I'm talking to all the time. I will talk to one of my friends on the phone and then he'll come into the room and asks who it is. When I'm on the internet he'll wonder who it is. Then if it's a boy he'll get mad and ask if he is just a friend. I'll say yes.
Plus I hate the fact that he is always in my business. Plus I don't want him to bother in my love life either. I'm 16 years old, i want my space. He thinks I'm always mad at him, but sometimes yes. Because he did something that hurt me, he pushed someone special in my life away. Just because he was 18. How can I get my space, and why wont he stop?

Answer:
I know that you've probably heard this before but you're going to hear it again.

It's normal for you to feel the way you do. He only does it because he cares. Really, it's true.

And, if you really want him to stop, talk to him about it.
Tell him who you're talking to calmly, and let him know that you understand he has authority and that he's doing what's best for you. Tell him if you were going to take a step into a relationship, you'd let him know first and work it out with him instead of just jumping into it without permission. Hopefully he'll understand that you aren't totally disobeying him and that you value his opinions and that he's just trying to help. Good luck, I feel like sometimes I deal with the same situation as you and yes, it's a difficult one to deal with all of the time.
Most dads are super sensitive to their teenage daughters like being over protective especially around your late early to late teen years, my dear. He probably didn't want you to be in trouble of some kind. you just have to show your dad that you are old enough to show some responsibilies. If you do that enough times. May be he'll leave you alone. But parents will be parents dear, because they care for you and your well being. I'm sure your dad probably wants the best for you. Sometimes you just have to learn to be patient. Good enough, yes?

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