Do you ever get your feelings hurt on here and how do you handle that?
and it hurts.
Answer:
Ok, you got my hug! Even if it's only a virtual hug. It's bad when people hurt your feelings, particluarly when it comes from someone you like or love. But remember, the person who hurt you has forgotten all about it and probably has no idea how they hurt you. On the other hand, if it was deliberate and meant to hurt, then have a go! Tell them! Get it out, and then forget it. It happens all the time, to everyone!
Do what ever it takes to build up your ego/self esteem. No I will never get my feelings hurt here. These are just words and that is it. Go hug yourself and move on babe.
I have gotten an answer on here that hurt...but not as bad as you made yours look. Still, I just thought: Oh, I don't know this person. I can just ignore what they say, because, hey? Does it really matter? No. All that matters is what I think of myself. You don't know this person, do you? Because if you don't, it doesn't matter, no matter how much it may have hurt. All that matters is what you think of yourself.
Often. I have had some very cruel remarks in answers and emails from askers and answerers. I have also received violation notices when I did absolutely nothing against the Community Guidelines.
One time, I was hurt so badly that I stayed off here for almost two months.
Sometimes, we just need to let things slide--not let them get us sick.
Yes I have had my feelings hurt and wanted to stop using the Yahoo questions and answers but looked at it as a game that people play and most of all some good questions do arrive from it all. So what I do I try not to answer offensive questions and it has help me a lots.
this shouldnt bother you, whatever it was. you are entitled to your opinion and this person is a coward to yell at you online.
who does that? only people who live in dark basements and lives off fruit loops for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
its not like whatever was said was something meaningful, just someone who also had an opinion. if it was someone you knew personally, then thats a bit different. but this is the internet. people think they can say whatever they want. if you actually saw this person on the street, they wouldnt do anything. so why would something like this bother you so much?
Try to keep in mind that anything said on here is not personal, not directed towards you. It's only directed towards the information that you gave. Our language is only 33% words. The rest is tone of voice and body language. When reading words that someone has written, all anyone is getting is 33% of what you are saying. When reading words, people will often place it into their personal experience to come up with an answer that may or may not be within the bounds that you are talking about.
Also, some people seem to intentionally try to harm others with their words, a form of abuse, on here. There aren't too many people like that. I know that sometimes it takes Yahoo a while to respond, but certainly report anything that goes over the line.
Unfortunately in this day and age, you have to develop a thick skin. We have a lot of horrible people that roam this earth with no regards for people's feelings whatsoever. Instead of feeling bad for yourself, feel bad for them that maybe they were raised with no morals or values. Dont ever let anyone hurt you. I try to teach my kids to respect others and to not let other peoples negativity affect them in any way. Dont lash back, your just stooping to their level
Im sorry that happened to you, ive noticed some really mean comments on here and these people are just trying to be funny. They may not even have a life if thats the only way they can get attention. Just ignore them and remember that the normal, decent people dont think its funny and we try to give good advice. Focus on those answers and report the bad ones so maybe theyll get thrown out of here. Dont ever stop caring for people, thats one of your best attributes.
Yes, some people are just out to push buttons and rub others the wrong way. I tend get upset when I don't know the person and they say something so very rude and don't know the person I am, they don't seem to like it, when I put them in their place..
Keep in mind this is only a game. Say something better or just report them if they become rude and obnoxious.
Yes, I have. I just tell myself that the person that insulted me or my integrity knows absolutely nothing about me, therefore, his insult means nothing. I find there are a lot of people that seem to go around instilling bad feelings and just being ignorant. You ran across one of them. Let it go, they don't know the real you. There are even more people on this site that are generous with their advice and they really care about other people and genuinly want to help each other. Pay attention only to them, not the others that seem to enjoy hurting other people.
I'm sorry to hear that you had your feelings hurt, but I wouldn't take it too much to heart; it's just the nature of the Y!A beast.
For example:
Just the other day, after posting an opinion on Y!A, I was singled out and called "disturbed", and "blind and dying of thirst"...;-)
Now did that bother me? Of course not.
Why not?...
Because when one decides to take part in an open, public forum one must be ready to accept the occasional lash of someone's tongue.
I hope this post has not offended you in any way.
The answers post by the user, for information only, FunQA.com does not guarantee the right.
More Questions and Answers: