Weird fantasy...?
i don't know why, since i was molested when i was younger, and i hated it and myself and got extremely depressed over it.
but i did some research and it says women that were molested/raped often have the fantasy of being dominated.
is this bad?
i just find it odd how even through all that, i would want to feel dominated.
Answer:
I wouldn't say that it is bad.
I think that your having been molested as a child and not being in control of the situation is prompting the thoughts of being dominated by a male in your adult life where you do have control.
We learn behaviors as children that we modify into our adult lives, even sexual behavior.
That being said, I would take steps to recognize your own self worth and build your self esteem. Learn to be your own best friend.
i dont know for sure, but i know it has something to do with your brain. like maybe when you were being molested, that's what you were brainwashed with.
This sad incident that happened to you when you was a child has kept you in that child like frame of mind.You really have not gotten over this regardless what you are telling yourself.This is very unfortunate and will remain in your mind the rest of your life no matter what you do.I hope you can at least put this on the very back part of your brain and let it stay there so you can get on with your real life.I wish you the best and hope for wonderful things for you.Take care,and take it slow,especially around dominating men.
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