I had this really really really wierd dream...?
Ok, so me and my ex boyfriend were in church. [[We don't even go to the same church.]] Then we left and I went to bed, but there were three buckets of condoms next to the bed. [[I don't even own condoms and I'm only thirteen!]] Well my mom found them. [[Well no wonder, they were right there!]] Then she got all mad at me for having condoms. I told her that I was still a virgin and saving them until the time comes that I need them, and I was just being prepared. Then she was all happy for me.
I mean, first of all, who the hell needs three buckets of condoms?!?! [[Unless you are a ho!]] And I'm still a virgin! What is this dream about? It's really bugging me! Please help me!
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And if this even helps, I haven't broken up with my "Ex" yet...but I'm going to soon, but I'm hoping we can still stay best friends...I don't know if that helps.
Answer:
..Dreams happen because the brain isn't totally inactive during sleep. The feelings you have during the day often associate with remembered images in a random way, creating the dream. It sounds like your dream imagery is about sexual desire, which is a natural feeling for any young person. In your case, it's also about a commitment to safe sex and abstinence. Three buckets is weird and irrational, yes...but that's the way dreams are. They almost never completely line up with reality, because of the randomness of the associations!
No worries, a nice dream...
I think that you may be at a stage in your life when you are trying to decide the circumstances surrounding your first sexual encounter.
Your subconscious is just attempting to sort out all of the ramifications of this big step.
Keep thinking about it and try to consciously make the right decision, one that will make both you and your parents proud.
It's not too early to sort out your feelings about such matters, but it is certainly too early to even consider actually engaging in that activity at such an early age.
You have plenty of time. Develop a game plan and stick to it, no matter the outside pressure from your friends.
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I mean, first of all, who the hell needs three buckets of condoms?!?! [[Unless you are a ho!]] And I'm still a virgin! What is this dream about? It's really bugging me! Please help me!
Additional Details
4 minutes ago
And if this even helps, I haven't broken up with my "Ex" yet...but I'm going to soon, but I'm hoping we can still stay best friends...I don't know if that helps.
Answer:
..Dreams happen because the brain isn't totally inactive during sleep. The feelings you have during the day often associate with remembered images in a random way, creating the dream. It sounds like your dream imagery is about sexual desire, which is a natural feeling for any young person. In your case, it's also about a commitment to safe sex and abstinence. Three buckets is weird and irrational, yes...but that's the way dreams are. They almost never completely line up with reality, because of the randomness of the associations!
No worries, a nice dream...
I think that you may be at a stage in your life when you are trying to decide the circumstances surrounding your first sexual encounter.
Your subconscious is just attempting to sort out all of the ramifications of this big step.
Keep thinking about it and try to consciously make the right decision, one that will make both you and your parents proud.
It's not too early to sort out your feelings about such matters, but it is certainly too early to even consider actually engaging in that activity at such an early age.
You have plenty of time. Develop a game plan and stick to it, no matter the outside pressure from your friends.
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