Have you ever thought about something you think you should have not? or felt guilty about a thought?
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Yes, I have. And I think that everyone does it and I believe that is absolutely normal. I don't act on those thoughts so there's no harm or foul in them. And I do feel bad that I've thought that way and weird because I don't understand why. And then I let it go and move on. What is one suppose to do about a simple thought anyway?
Not really. I am not sure if that is a good or bad thing either. LOL. But, for the most part, our thoughts are a safe place (hopefully) where a lot of .. umm.. interesting things can cross our mind. It's normal and natural to think things a little offbeat. But, as long as you don't act upon it, then it's fine.
i dont feel guilty about thoughts, i feel guilty about actions sometimes. Alot of people think about bad things but dont follow through with them.
Your self consious is telling u something when u feel guilty. maybe its time to be real and ask urself what it is that is causing the guilt trip. In a way its good that we dont speak all of our thoughts.. Wouldnt it be a noisy world if we spoke everything we thought... So dont stress about it... as long as u dont act on it then u should be good.
I would if George Clooney appeared in full living color at the end of my bed after I dreamed about him.
I think it is normal for a person to feel that way. Your conscience tells you that what you have done is "wrong" and it is ok to feel guilty. Just don't dwell on such feelings of guilt but instead try to avoid having the same thoughts lest they lead you to act "wrongly". Avoid stuations that will trigger those thoughts and be positive.
i think everyone has a bad or "wrong" or "misguided" thought from time to time, and then we feel badly about it when we think about the thought and the repercussions that may have ensued...haven't you ever wish that someone who just almost caused you to have a car accident, have the same thing happen to them...then when you think about it, you feel badly because you really don't want people to get hurt...
sometimes we feel guilty when we think ill of someone without knowing why they acted the way they did, or said the things they did, or when we misinterpreted something...but then later on, we feel horrible when we find out why... its guilt, and guilt is normal. It means we have a conscience and are good deep down, no matter how we sometimes act or act out or, in how we think. There really is no way not to have a bad thought from time to time. We can't know everything. BUT, there is never a reason to be rude, so keeping the thoughts to ourselves is most important as not to unnecessarily hurt someone.
... Im not responsible for the first thought that pops in my head. what I am responsible for is my second thought. Example, if Im married and I see a cute girl my first thought mght be " Wish i could have sex with her" Then I can put in a second thought such as "I love my wfe" and all is good. First thoughts are a combination of old memories, genetic impulses, hormones and 1,000,000 other factors , including what I ate for breakfast and whether the sun is shining. No need to feel guilty about any first thought. A thought is harmless unless ACTED upon.
We set certain standards for ourselves and if we have thoughts that are beneath them, we feel guilty. But, we are human too, and have little to no control over what things pop into our heads. It doesn't make you abnormal or a bad person, it makes you all too normal really.
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