I need some FREE on-line theropy ASAP!?
I have an addiction to the internet/computer
I'll get on the first thing in the morning and stay on till 5:00 in the MORNING! Of course I'll eat Lunch and Dinner though.
I want to be able to walk freely in public
I'm always on the Computer but when I DO get out of the house I am scared to walk outside. I think people might think that I
walk like a girl. I like guys but I don't want know one to know!
I want friend(s) to hangout with
I am SHY. I have people that I talk to 'sometimes' but most of the time I AM shy. The only time I talk to them is on MySpace. I am too SHY to talk to them on the Phone. And I hardly have any of my friends numbers.
I DESPERATELY want a boyfriend
I really , really, do! I liked this one boy from my class(before school ended) but I was too shy to tell him. I lost my chance to tell him and now I am heart broken. Why can't I just meet some one nice and THEY tell ME that they like me.
Answer:
You don't need therapy. Therapists help you to figure out what's wrong in your life. You already did that part. If you want to change what you don't like about your life you will do it.
It really is just that easy.
r u gay ? and if ur poor shouldn't u be looking a jobv instead of living on the internet and worrying bout walking like a f uc king girl here's a tip ! GET A LIFE !!
I help a lot of people from all over the world to work through issues and achieve the goals they set for themselves. I am a "Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist" but I would rather just talk to you as a friend (for free) to help you with your situation. My website is at http://www.meetyourangels.com
so much more info needed. but first, hang in there 'cause everyone has a someone. how old are you? have you ever had the sme sex friend in an romantic way? you really do need to take things slow by the way that you have worded things on this ? the best of luck for you and yours. hang in there, YOU WILL BE HAPPY!!!!!!!
So.you're a guy who likes guys.ok.
Well, bud...GET OFF THE DANG COMPUTER!!!! Getting on FunQA.com will not help you...because it involves BEING ON A COMPUTER.
Go out to a movie, walk in the park...visit your grandmother or the tombstone of the one that died.
Send a letter and go to the post office.
GET OUT OF THE HOUSE.AWAY FROM A COMPUTER
Use a typewriter.
And about the boys: Well you're just at an age where most guys havent "come out" yet.
Wait til sophomore year of college...that's the main Breakout Year... I would know, being that I am a college student.
It would of helped alot if you would of given a age.. but you use the Internet as your way of communicating bcuz u are shy.. ,,, U need to get into a support group.. learn about your self!!! All the questions you asked,,, ? We do not know you and we can not give you all the answers that you want...
a support group.. will be people with problems just like you and perhaps you can meet someone there you like and that likes you... ..
Limit your self on the computer. I know "easier said then done" but if you don't tell yourself to get off the computer who will? Maybe even get rid of your myspace so you can get rid of some of the addicting things on the computer.
Get some confidence. Yet again "easier said then done." Be proud of who you are. In the words of Bette Midler, "I'm beautiful!" I always listin to songs that make me happy :). And I listin to them every mourning =P.
I'm really shy too and have a horrible time meeting new people, but what you need to do is push your self out of your comfort zone. Yet again, "easier said then done." But what isn't "easier said then done?" Go to a bar and just say hi to a couple of people, and if you make a fool of yourself you never have to see them again and if you don't you might have made a friendship. And ask for their number, be like "do you want to hangout sometime?" Then offer to go see a movie together or go have a cup of coffee, lame I know but you'll eventually get comfortable with it, I eventually did.
I hope this helps somewhat, and I hope you push yourself to try and break some of your bad habbits! Remember just because something is "easier said then done" doesn't mean it can't be done!
Jane
P.S. Goodluck getting a boyfriend! (and I don't mean that to be sarcastic! I really do mean goodluck, I hope you get one!)
Finally your aware of your addiction. Find a new hobby to keep you away from the computer
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