Are we really dead?
i wonder sometimes because it seems like im having the worst luck in life. my dad commited suicide, my mom died when i was 14 due to lupus. im an only child and now im 19 and really if anything were to happen to me it's all on me. no one else that has to care about me or for me. it's scary.
my love life is horrible. i date the losers, or find ones that are taken and it just feels like im being punished for something.
im not actively depressed but i go through boughts where all i can think about the horrible things ive endured. i get so scared that maybe this life is hell.
am i crazy for thinking that? and having thought this i wonder if im doomed to only have bad things happen.
the only good thing i have going for me is that for the most part im happy and i've graduated high school and continue to do good things for me. but for some unseen reason im dealt with the worst cards from the most evil deck of cards there are...
am i nuts?
Answer:
no you are not, dont say that. Anything you want you will have. It's just not going to be given to you on a silver platter. You just have to look for something to look forward to everyday and something that will make you feel motivated. And that should be yourself. You will find people to love you and care for you. Think positive, and positive things will come. Stand up and smile. Set goals for yourself and do a list of the steps you must complete to achieve them, and not only will you achieve what you set yourself to do, but you will gain so many good things from it as you work for it. You will make friends, and find love. You just have to stand up and do something for it, not lay back thinking life is hell. Take everything and turn it into something more positive. Ofcourse, easier said than done, but trust me, you won't regret it when you do find that little thing that makes it all worth it. But, I think you already have it, you just don't see it. Hope I helped., and I want to wish yyou the best of luck!!
you're not nuts~
no im 19 as well i feel sorry for you now i can always think of you and your 2 dead parents when i feel sorry for my self i can always remember both of my parents are living and breathing thank you
No - you are human.
Many people face incredible hardships and emerge victorious. Look upon everything in your life as a lesson and a blessing.
Who can blame you for having bouts of depression?
FP
well that does suck, they say God will not give you more than u can handle.im sure someday things will be great for you,im sorry its been rough so far. u arent alone tho, can u see a counselor? or maybe a friend...IM me if youd like, id be happy to talk it all out w/ u. =o] gl hon.
Well you've had some pretty bad luck. But if you're at the worst, it can only get better. AIM me at sysofadown9580. I've been through some pretty bad times, too.
you're not nuts, you should volunteer, that's where I met my boyfriend of almost a year, people who volunteer are usually very nice, so it's easy to talk to them and meet people
Keep chuggin' along and something will happen all of the sudden that will make it all worth while. No one has bad luck forever.
no ur not
your luck will change u cant keep having bad luck
just keep having a positive attitude
well things could always be worse. you could have been born in the middle east and live in extreme poverty, become malnourished and disease ridden. You could become captured and forced to work as a sex slave. All sorts of things can happen to you, be thankful for what you DO have. You obviously have enough money for a computer and enough free time to play around on FunQA.com. bad things happen to everyone, it's how you pick yourself up and dust yourself off that shows how strong you really are.
you are not nuts...and you are not dead...
you can tell...pain tells us we are alive and it seems you are getting more than your share...i am terribly sorry for the things that have happened to you and am very impressed with you graduating...i would like to say keep a stiff upper lip...yada yada...but darlin you have this thing pretty well under control...better than most...if you ever need to just talk or get some confirmation on stuff...feel free to email me...you sound like a great 19 year old...
no your not nuts. you've gone through a lot and these feelings are definately acceptable. nothing like that has happened to me, and even i feel like that sometimes, though i'm sure yours is to a whole different level, but the point is that i think it's human nature to feel like life is hell when all hope seems lost. just look for something to make you think otherwise. all hope ain't lost. perhaps just buried?
i'm really sorry for what happen to you, and your not nuts...
i don't know what to do but, i'll pray for you. God bless you
omg you hav gone through alot
and you know what you overcome those things
and it made you stronger didnt it
if those things hadnt happen you wouldnt be the person you are right now
and you aint nuts
no you are not nuts. i think God is trying to get your attention. if you want something to give you hope go to www.blessedhopechaple.com you will find answers there and also in a bible. i will pray for you and i hope that you will find peace in the Lord Jesus Christ. things happen for a reason. turn to God for rest not us. God bless you.
In Christ,
Fethmoe
A person isn't "dead" until, his/her heart stops beating completly.
no ur not nuts... i think sumone out there as bigger plans for u. i believe tht everyone in life as to overcome certain obstacles and those are the obstacles you have to obtain. don't back down. and its ok to feel bad. ur love life will improve when ur attuide improves. good luck<3
No you're not nuts. Alot of people go what you're going through in life. You need to think about the positive things in life. Don't waste your life thinking that everything and everyone is against you, cause if you do you'll miss out on all of the good things.
We are definately not dead!
You say you do ok for yourself, graduated hs, and are moving forward in life. Try writing down the good things that happen to you each day, even the little ones, like someone letting you by in traffic, or finding a quarter etc. Try not concentrating so much on what was, but on whats ahead. Soon enough you glass will be half full.
Not all is bad, you will do well in life knowing how much you have struggled. I know.
my parents divorced at age 12
I was put out of house at age 15
my father passed when he was 55
my stepmom passed when she was 49
i take care of my mother financially
i had a child after a vasectomy
my wife has a beatable cancer we are fighting
i have just had rotator cuff surgery painful
The bad stuff will come and go what will you make of it.
Good Luck to you in all you do.
DOn't think of the horrible things you endured think of the good things you endured. if you keep thinking the bad things and saying to yourself "life's hell" more, don't because you'll start believeing that life is and and you won't get any happier. Have optimistic views- because saying that everythings terrible (even though they might not seem) will make you BELIEVE everythings terrible - it's all in how you view the things. If you start thinking more optimistic it seems you have better luck and more confidence (it works!)
Promise me. And remember life's short, go out do the happier things in life. That's the past- what can you do for the future?
I am really sorry, sometimes it seems like there are the lucky people and then there is us. We can't choose what happens to us, but we can make good choices with what we have. I hope that you are in college. Stay away from boys and get a good education. You should qualify for grants and you can start out in community college. I think that you are depressed and may be looking for love for self esteem. Go and talk to a couselor, alot of churches offer free counseling.
This is my wisdom that I am giving to you. I wish I was close so that you would have someone to talk to. I hope that didn't sound to creepy. Good Luck
I don't think you're going through hell right now. I'm Christain, Southern Baptist to be exact, and all my life, I've been tought that hell is where you go once you're dead, Heaven if you're saved. And from what my father, the pastor, has told me, hell is descibed as unimaginiable, unfathomable pain and misery. It may seem like right now is probably a hard time, but I think, believe, things will get better for you. If you like, I can and will pray for things to get better.
♥
hey, i would love to chat with you about this and your other questions you asked. i wanted to add you as a contact on yahoo im, if you want sign in and we can chat!
ttys!
-Abbey
and no, you're not nuts, I've felt like this many times in my life and I think I could give you some good advise that could help change how you feel about some things. I'm 20, but I've also had to go through many tough things and questioned my existence here on earth and all. . .but you just have to keep fighting. get on yahoo im, and we'll chat a little!!
No. You are not dead until your heart stops beating. When you no longer want to live are you emotionally dead. Bad things happen to good people. Learn what you can from your past and move on. Do not let your past dictate your future. Good luck.
U Need Jesus. *nOt jOkiing*
No you are not dead, when you heart stops then you are dead, please don't give up, I have also dated loser's to, there are lots of other people worse of than you,( also be like a boxer always go one more round please ) there are some people that don't like me,my answer is ( Stiff I don't care )
keep on fighting please
your mate disciple
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my love life is horrible. i date the losers, or find ones that are taken and it just feels like im being punished for something.
im not actively depressed but i go through boughts where all i can think about the horrible things ive endured. i get so scared that maybe this life is hell.
am i crazy for thinking that? and having thought this i wonder if im doomed to only have bad things happen.
the only good thing i have going for me is that for the most part im happy and i've graduated high school and continue to do good things for me. but for some unseen reason im dealt with the worst cards from the most evil deck of cards there are...
am i nuts?
Answer:
no you are not, dont say that. Anything you want you will have. It's just not going to be given to you on a silver platter. You just have to look for something to look forward to everyday and something that will make you feel motivated. And that should be yourself. You will find people to love you and care for you. Think positive, and positive things will come. Stand up and smile. Set goals for yourself and do a list of the steps you must complete to achieve them, and not only will you achieve what you set yourself to do, but you will gain so many good things from it as you work for it. You will make friends, and find love. You just have to stand up and do something for it, not lay back thinking life is hell. Take everything and turn it into something more positive. Ofcourse, easier said than done, but trust me, you won't regret it when you do find that little thing that makes it all worth it. But, I think you already have it, you just don't see it. Hope I helped., and I want to wish yyou the best of luck!!
you're not nuts~
no im 19 as well i feel sorry for you now i can always think of you and your 2 dead parents when i feel sorry for my self i can always remember both of my parents are living and breathing thank you
No - you are human.
Many people face incredible hardships and emerge victorious. Look upon everything in your life as a lesson and a blessing.
Who can blame you for having bouts of depression?
FP
well that does suck, they say God will not give you more than u can handle.im sure someday things will be great for you,im sorry its been rough so far. u arent alone tho, can u see a counselor? or maybe a friend...IM me if youd like, id be happy to talk it all out w/ u. =o] gl hon.
Well you've had some pretty bad luck. But if you're at the worst, it can only get better. AIM me at sysofadown9580. I've been through some pretty bad times, too.
you're not nuts, you should volunteer, that's where I met my boyfriend of almost a year, people who volunteer are usually very nice, so it's easy to talk to them and meet people
Keep chuggin' along and something will happen all of the sudden that will make it all worth while. No one has bad luck forever.
no ur not
your luck will change u cant keep having bad luck
just keep having a positive attitude
well things could always be worse. you could have been born in the middle east and live in extreme poverty, become malnourished and disease ridden. You could become captured and forced to work as a sex slave. All sorts of things can happen to you, be thankful for what you DO have. You obviously have enough money for a computer and enough free time to play around on FunQA.com. bad things happen to everyone, it's how you pick yourself up and dust yourself off that shows how strong you really are.
you are not nuts...and you are not dead...
you can tell...pain tells us we are alive and it seems you are getting more than your share...i am terribly sorry for the things that have happened to you and am very impressed with you graduating...i would like to say keep a stiff upper lip...yada yada...but darlin you have this thing pretty well under control...better than most...if you ever need to just talk or get some confirmation on stuff...feel free to email me...you sound like a great 19 year old...
no your not nuts. you've gone through a lot and these feelings are definately acceptable. nothing like that has happened to me, and even i feel like that sometimes, though i'm sure yours is to a whole different level, but the point is that i think it's human nature to feel like life is hell when all hope seems lost. just look for something to make you think otherwise. all hope ain't lost. perhaps just buried?
i'm really sorry for what happen to you, and your not nuts...
i don't know what to do but, i'll pray for you. God bless you
omg you hav gone through alot
and you know what you overcome those things
and it made you stronger didnt it
if those things hadnt happen you wouldnt be the person you are right now
and you aint nuts
no you are not nuts. i think God is trying to get your attention. if you want something to give you hope go to www.blessedhopechaple.com you will find answers there and also in a bible. i will pray for you and i hope that you will find peace in the Lord Jesus Christ. things happen for a reason. turn to God for rest not us. God bless you.
In Christ,
Fethmoe
A person isn't "dead" until, his/her heart stops beating completly.
no ur not nuts... i think sumone out there as bigger plans for u. i believe tht everyone in life as to overcome certain obstacles and those are the obstacles you have to obtain. don't back down. and its ok to feel bad. ur love life will improve when ur attuide improves. good luck<3
No you're not nuts. Alot of people go what you're going through in life. You need to think about the positive things in life. Don't waste your life thinking that everything and everyone is against you, cause if you do you'll miss out on all of the good things.
We are definately not dead!
You say you do ok for yourself, graduated hs, and are moving forward in life. Try writing down the good things that happen to you each day, even the little ones, like someone letting you by in traffic, or finding a quarter etc. Try not concentrating so much on what was, but on whats ahead. Soon enough you glass will be half full.
Not all is bad, you will do well in life knowing how much you have struggled. I know.
my parents divorced at age 12
I was put out of house at age 15
my father passed when he was 55
my stepmom passed when she was 49
i take care of my mother financially
i had a child after a vasectomy
my wife has a beatable cancer we are fighting
i have just had rotator cuff surgery painful
The bad stuff will come and go what will you make of it.
Good Luck to you in all you do.
DOn't think of the horrible things you endured think of the good things you endured. if you keep thinking the bad things and saying to yourself "life's hell" more, don't because you'll start believeing that life is and and you won't get any happier. Have optimistic views- because saying that everythings terrible (even though they might not seem) will make you BELIEVE everythings terrible - it's all in how you view the things. If you start thinking more optimistic it seems you have better luck and more confidence (it works!)
Promise me. And remember life's short, go out do the happier things in life. That's the past- what can you do for the future?
I am really sorry, sometimes it seems like there are the lucky people and then there is us. We can't choose what happens to us, but we can make good choices with what we have. I hope that you are in college. Stay away from boys and get a good education. You should qualify for grants and you can start out in community college. I think that you are depressed and may be looking for love for self esteem. Go and talk to a couselor, alot of churches offer free counseling.
This is my wisdom that I am giving to you. I wish I was close so that you would have someone to talk to. I hope that didn't sound to creepy. Good Luck
I don't think you're going through hell right now. I'm Christain, Southern Baptist to be exact, and all my life, I've been tought that hell is where you go once you're dead, Heaven if you're saved. And from what my father, the pastor, has told me, hell is descibed as unimaginiable, unfathomable pain and misery. It may seem like right now is probably a hard time, but I think, believe, things will get better for you. If you like, I can and will pray for things to get better.
♥
hey, i would love to chat with you about this and your other questions you asked. i wanted to add you as a contact on yahoo im, if you want sign in and we can chat!
ttys!
-Abbey
and no, you're not nuts, I've felt like this many times in my life and I think I could give you some good advise that could help change how you feel about some things. I'm 20, but I've also had to go through many tough things and questioned my existence here on earth and all. . .but you just have to keep fighting. get on yahoo im, and we'll chat a little!!
No. You are not dead until your heart stops beating. When you no longer want to live are you emotionally dead. Bad things happen to good people. Learn what you can from your past and move on. Do not let your past dictate your future. Good luck.
U Need Jesus. *nOt jOkiing*
No you are not dead, when you heart stops then you are dead, please don't give up, I have also dated loser's to, there are lots of other people worse of than you,( also be like a boxer always go one more round please ) there are some people that don't like me,my answer is ( Stiff I don't care )
keep on fighting please
your mate disciple
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