I don't enjoy kissing. Is there something wrong with me??
I'm also really uncomfortable when things get sexual. I don't mind going down on a guy but I won't let him even touch me down there.
I should mention I've never been in a serious relationship, never had sex, and never been in love, but I'm afraid if any or all of that happens I'll still have this problem.
Am I asexual or something?
PS - I'm not sexually attracted to women either.
Answer:
it would get old if that is all you did was kiss for 1/2 hour. When you meet the right guy, you will want to kiss him and enjoy it. There is nothing wrong with not wanting sex yet. Its your body and you only want someone very special touching it. That is great!! Give it time, you will meet a guy that will change your mind with all this stuff :)
You're still very young. Perhaps you haven't liked a guy enough to really enjoy kissing. Really, it's not something that you should do for the heck of it. You also don't have to do it just because everyone else does.
Give it time, and when you find the right man you will enjoy it a lot more.
You say you've never had sex, but you've "gone down on a guy" so you have had a form of sex. If you can do that, kissing shouldn't be a problem. You just need the right guy who knows how to really kiss you well.
No, you're normal. There will be plenty of time for "screwing" around so to speak. Finish school and do what you like. The man for you isn't around yet.
PS - you really shouldn't "go down" on a guy because you don't mind - you should do it because you feel it - if you don't feel it, don't provide any services, you know what I mean?...
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