What would you change??
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I would go back and stuck up for myself against those who have abused me, be it physically, verbally, psychologically, or sexually.
I don't know what type of person that would have turned me into, but I wouldn't have had those bad experiences from my past.
I totally agree with Rainbow. I would have stayed with my dad, so abuse never occured.
I am grateful for all the experiences (good & bad) throughout my life but I have pondered the "what if.." question.
I don't think I would change anything because everything that has happened, did happen for a reason and I am the person today because of it.
i dont think id change anything .. not cos i think i have an amazing life (on the contrary), but all my bad experiences have made me who i am today .. in many ways, i grew to believe more and more that something good always comes out from a bad situation .. i find that very true, because it has developed my character and personality to a point where i started liking 'me' .. bad experiences and hard life lessons give you a slap in the face and remind you that your not as impervious as you thought, or possibly they result in so much hurt and pain, that when you start to heal you become stronger and less naive or likely to make the same mistake twice ..
That is so crazy that you asked this question. I am sitting here feeling kinda hollow because of my past decisions that are affecting me big time right now. First off, I wish I never had started dancing, it was a road that leads straight to a horrible life, pretty much hell. Second, since I blew all the money from dancing, I now wish I would have spent it better and not blown it all away. But easy come, easy go I guess. If I wouldn't have been in that lifestyle, I wouldn't of had to get rid of every person or thing that reminded me of those dance places and the drama that goes with that. I have now changed my life, slowly but surely, but I have no real friends because I got rid of the negative people and am in debt big time with nothing but hospital bills on my credit report. Ugh!! If I would have never stepped into that dark world, I know things would have turned out better alot sooner. But pray for me because I am really trying to change my life for the better. Better late than never at all. God Bless.
i would want to change how naive i was ..but then again i am still naive...maybe i would agree with rainbow to and just stand up against all the people who have ever hurt me...i wonder sometimes what my life would be like and where i would be at today if only i had not been afraid of stopping certain things/or saying no to people.
they say hind sight is 20/20
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