Suppose someone close to you hurts you deeply, You get over it and forgive them , without that person asking f

Like I was saying you get over it without an apology, then they want to come back into your life. Is it O.K. to say no?

Answer:
Yes, it's fine to say no. In fact, it's probably wiser to say no. If this person has caused you great pain and has still not apologized, this is an indication that he/she is still not sorry for what they did and may repeat the action (or something similar) later on if you allow them back into your life.

It's great to forgive them; but forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to let them back into your life. Unless they've shown true remorse, then it's just not safe to welcome them back.
sure tell him to go screw around with some one else feelings
Depends on how close this person was. If they are someone you love you can forgive them but keep on guard, dont always trust them completely or you can just forgive them and maybe they have learned their lesson? For them to not have even apologized is crazy though
Forgiving, allows me to let go and move on into my future.
Baggage from the past, only get heaver the longer you carry it around with you.
It's always ok to say no. You have to listen to your inner voice. I forgave the love of my life twice and he hurt me both times, we are not together now. I have forgiven him. You have to decide how much YOU are willing to put up with. Nobody can tell you that. Good luck.

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