Chriss77 asked for help as in reaching out about a friend who no longer wants to go on?
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You have many good points. I share most of your feelings.
However, I tend to disagree with your concept that an unloving sex life is a top contributor to suicides.
To me, love and sex have become mutually exclusive to most people. Sex can be had by anyone at anytime with no emotional or long-term financial commitment.
Sex is now considered a momentary source of pleasure that can be easily achieved outside of a loving relationship.
Of course, sex is important. A loving couple needs to have a normal sex life. Without these two components, some mental dysfunction usually creeps into the relationship.
However, love is the key. If we can find a loving partner who supports us and empathizes with us, as we do with them, we will feel emotional contentment. And, as for the sex, we can work that out with a loving partner.
I have spent months been struggling w/ the thought of suicide for months now. I am in a one way relatonship for the most part. Disabled and can not work or barly keep the hoouse clean. Does he bother to help no does this add to the depression YES. Do I get cards on birthdays,anniversarys,valenti... day or Christmas #$%^ NO. Do I give on these days yes. We barely are able to pay the bills and he is able to get a second job part-time many have been offered. When he was married before he took 2 or 3 jobs just to make it. She get dozens of roses for birthdays (I know this because as I was clearing out files I ran across them). He always carried insurance on her and has never cared it on me. I feel as if I am here for his own pleasure and nothing more. So right now do I care about living #$%$^ no.
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