What do you do when someone threat you in a way they shouldnt be ?
ex: someone talks in your back, but when that person is with you she acts like nothing happened
Answer:
Forgive ; but NEVER forget!
Get as far away as possible from the two-faced phony!
Confrontation is one way to go...I would slowly work it into the conversation...
call them out in front of a bunch of people.
if youve got friends, theyll be right behind you too. if it starts a fight, maybe thats what the person wanted from the start, because she obviously didnt like you enough to respect you.
It depends on if I ever have to see the person again.
If I never have to see the person again, I would probably do nothing, just avoid them.
If I HAVE to see them and work with them, I would practice assertiveness techniques to let the person know how they made me feel and how I plan to manage their poor social skills in the future.
If it was a work situation, and the problem persisted, I would go above that person's head and seek help.
If it is someone you speak with socially, let her know that the rumors you are hearing are bothering you. Ask if there is something you have done to cause her to alter her opinion of you. Don't allow it to continue without talking with her. Your only response upon hearing what she is saying from your friends, "I'm not sure why she would say that." Regardless of whether people insist on saying they don't care what others think of them, we all do to some extent.
TELL THEM TAHT YOU KNOW THEY SPEAK BEHIND YOUR BACK
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