Help me...!?
am i the only one who thinks this way ? i feel really down for letting those people hurt me like that and not knowing what to say back at them and i feel like a loser .
how can i overcome this ?
Answer:
First of all you should know that your feelings are absolutely normal, in the first phase of course. At the time being, this first phase of taking revenge takes a long time, but little by little when you manage to face your problem it becomes shorter and shorter.
Now how to manage the problem: The important thing you should know is that such people are very weak and pitiful. They want to torture others because they have been tortured by others. They are not strong or any better than others. May be even they are jealous of you. Believe me. If someone tries to humiliate you or say something to make you feel down, he or she is jealous of something in you and this behavior is a kind of compensation for the humiliation he or she feels within.
So don't be angry why you haven't answered them. Strong people make no notice of cheap worthless people. When you know this, you can also answer them whenever you want.
killing everyone who ever hurt you
Really it is natural in human to feel bad about hurting people but if u will forget u will attain greatness in yourself. In general try to avoid facing the hurting people.
Nope, you aren't the only one that feels that way. Everyone feels that way at one time or another. EVERYONE.
Some people take petty little revenges and some go way overboard. Some just learn a lesson from it and move on.
Truthfully, the best thing to do is to move on.
Why?
Because when you take revenge, you will pay a greater price then the what you are inflicting on the ones that harmed you. And then they win that way too.
The best thing you can do is to live your life to it's fullest. Live a life so crammed with good things that there is no room for the idiots and morons of life to cast their shadow on your happiness. It really works!
There will always be a s s holes in life. The trick is to put a s s holes where they belong - behind you!
The more you think about it the more you will feel like a loser. Do they deserve the importance that you are giving them by constantly thinking about them? Are they so important to you that they can destroy your peace of mind? Only petty and mean people hurt others. You should not go down to their level. You should remain above them.
you are not abnormal! several people do this, including myself...one way i have let these things go is to write them out...i know it sounds stupid but it really does help...i write out every little detail of the situation...almost reliving it...usually it hurts all over again...then i take it and i burn the paper...and get rid of it...completely...there will be some residual feelings left but it does help to get it out and over with...also you need to know that there are people out there who are more concerned with hurting you than anything else...these are the people we learn lessons from...we learn not to be like that to others...because we feel the pain...so every time someone does this to you in the future...thank them (in your head) for teaching you another lesson...and cut them off...completely...there is no room for continuous hurt from people you know don't care...good luck..this is hard to overcome but you can...and you are NOT a loser...you are a student...being taught a lesson...just learn from it so you don't have to repeat it!
just try to forgive them and forget..
Don't say nothing just grab one of them,if this will happen again, and punch him in the face
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