Overcoming the fear of your alcoholic stepfather?
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I personally wouldn't advise it; it might make him vengeful and spiteful. As for you, you might feel better temporarily but not in the long run. Try calling a help line that deals with matters such as this.
I think you would feel better in some ways but worse in others. I don't think that is a way to go about this. First you might want to try and get help through programs. Al-Aon is a good program. It is like AA just for the family members. It might be nice to have someone to talk to that is going through the same thing you are. Here is one site for it. If you want to find more you can google it. Hope everything turns out for you!
How old are you first of all and is he bigger?
You must live with him, to take his abuse.?
That's a terrible situation to live in.
So your Mom must be going through this also?
Your Mom has issues(enabler), to allow a drunk man to instill emotional fears of abuse.
Most alcoholic's have fear's of their own.
Insecurity
Abandonment
Low Self esteem
Jerk
If you are bigger than him, I'd say yes.
It would be beneficial to vent.
Because if he's got issues,he's going to go on the defense.
No one should take abuse from no other person!
But if you are smaller and could get cracked over the head.
NO!
Tell another adult. And vent to them. Or go live somewhere else. It's not worth it for your psychological well being.
If you can't leave, pick up some reading on why some people choose to drink and make other people miserable and how you can deal with it.
As you grow, you will see what a pathetic human being he actually is.
But as you grow older and stronger. He'll mellow and try to be your friend.
It's called "Fear of A** kicking"
Step 1. Fill your stepfarthers drink with drugs, roofies, ketamine etc. whatever you can get your hands on.
Step 2. Wait for him to pass out.
Step 3. Take advantage of the fact that he is passed out. Get a gun put it in his hand and then shoot yourself in the leg.
Step 4. Throw your self around the room and mess everything up and yell and scream "no" "dont" etc.
Step 5. Alert authorities.
Step 6. Confess he was raging alcho and he often assaulted you
Step 7. Enjoy the freedom of no alcho stepfarther.
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