Fascination of being degraded?

My partner, Kate and I have established a lesbian relationship for a few years. I believe that she genuinely has a fascination of being degraded. Then again, I could be wrong, so I am trying to seek for honest opinions.

The scenario is that she enjoys trying to keep up with my car, while she is on her bicycle. Well, I drive a 2005 Mercedes CLK320, which I guess is a rather fast car. Our office is about 14 miles each way, which is almost 30 miles roundtrip! She does this by cycling on a daily basis. I get exhausted just thinking about it. Also, trying vigorously to keep up with me as I am driving my car is just silly. Because of this, I take the back roads to work (35 mph zones, on fairly flat terrains).

Is her behavior a fetish?

Often, I get bored and just drove normally at 35 to 45 mph; as it doesn’t take long to leave her in the dust. Nevertheless, she will sprint after me until she is totally exhausted. Am I being mean?

Answer:
Sometimes its nice to have an objective while riding. It takes your mind off the day to day random thoughts that intrude on your mind.

She may be trying to find her zone while riding. Having an artificial opponent gives her something to focus on, something to push her harder, the adrenaline rush. And at some point during this competitive push, she hits an endorphin rush.

Think of it this way, she just really likes chasing you around. =) Its the thrill of the chase.

If she had a thing for being degraded, she would enjoy / be comfortable with you putting her down in some form or fashion.
well maybe shes just trying to get exercise?? It doesnt really sound like a fetish...i does that actually turn her on??
maybe she should be in the Tour de France?
That is a little odd, I don't think it is a fetish but it is strange. At least she is getting exercise I guess.

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