Where can a liar get help?
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Lying can become a habitual way to avoid talking about things you don't want to discuss. Or, it can be an attempt to seem more impressive or interesting than you feel you are.
Perhaps you are just afraid to be honest. There are many reasons for habitually (compulsively?) lying, so, if you want to stop lying, you should first find out why you feel the need to lie. To do that, you should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist and get to the underlying cause. Personally, I've found that a psychiatrist is better at getting to the roots of a problem than a psychologist is. However, there are good psychologists out there, too. You don't really need to find a therapist who specializes in lying problems; just find one with a good reputation.
I hope you have health insurance to cover this, but even if you don't, you should get help now because lying can bring you serious consequences in the future.
Good luck!
Incidentally, I suggest you wait until you have been to a therapist before you try to win back your relationship..
LA liars anom
Don't you wish there was a Liars Anonymous? I wonder if many people do.
You dont need help man, the answer to your question is within yourself, just stop doing it. The bad part about lying is, you eventually get good at it. Maybe you need to build some self esteem, cause that might be causing some of it, forcing yourself to lie about who you really are. And dude dont give up on the one you love man, 3 years for nothing? Hell no go get your woman back, if anything tell her you want to change.
An alternative: Talk to someone that may have the same problem, or maybe someone that has had the problem and has overcome it. Just stay strong, and dont let the bad thoughts get in your head.
So you said that you are a liar! but you just have admit it to all of us on line ,there is hope for you yet!
No one can help you ! you are the one that need to face the fact and you just did!
I am not lying to you ,Keep it up and the truth will prevail.
I think you are the best person to help yourself. Try as much as posible not to live like any other person, don't try to please or be every thing to every body because any attempt will always lead you to lieing and living a borrowed life. Be yourself
are you lying about being in san diego??
go see a therapist
Go to church and get counseling from a minister who can guide you with scripture and show you how to change your life around.
And start reading your Bible every day and draw strength from God's word as you learn how to live a more wholesome life, following all the examples Jesus set for us in the New Testament.
You need to learn how to love and respect yourself and take pride in who you are as a person and then treat others with respect ~ being honest with others is one way of showing them respect.
And you might want to write a letter of apology and mail it to her and let her know you are truly sorry for the pain you caused her and let her know you are getting counseling, then ask her if she will join you and help you understand better why it is wrong to act the way you did and how to get on the right track.
God bless you
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