How do people develop strong personality ?

I always wonder how some people are smarter than the others within a same age group? some people have very creative thinking while others are just as simple and go with the flow thinking.. does that has to do with the way they were raised? or what are the main factors? Please advice. Thanks !

Answer:
Yes, some people are born with a creative mind. However, I have found EXPERIENCE to be the best. The more things in life you experience, the stronger you will be! You can't expect to be a STRONG person if you are sitting at home all of the time. You can't expect to be creative, if you don't practice at it, and practice using your imagination. Experience is key to everything.
They are born with it. Reading an astrological chart often reveals a strong personality or a way with words. In Victorian times, they used to tell plain girls, "If you can't be beautiful, be peculiar". I suspect it means: "More interesting than a modest, demure young maiden".
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Strong personality= Car breaks down in a snow storm. Person with strong personality leaves car and walks home. no problem. Person with weak personality. Crys sits in car. freezes to death. Strong personality says "Let's go rob a bank. Weak personality says Which one?
I think it's more of a survival of the fittest response, I was different so I had to act different to fit in, then that wasn't enough and I had to become the opposite of everyone else so I could fit into my personality, I found out that I was not like other people the majority of the time! I have no desire to be like anyone else, I like being different and people seem to like my just fine the way I am.
Great question! I think if everyone was observable enough to ask that question and in time able to find the answer the world would be a better place.
To answer your question, yes it comes from the way they were raised along with many other elements. I think the three main elements in my opinion are Nature(the environment/community they grew up in) and Nurture(they way they were raised by their parents). The third one surpasses all the others but can and is greatly influenced by th two. It is Self(the choices YOU decided to make for yourself). EVERYONE has to give an account for the things they do in the end and you cannot say "he/she made me do it," or "its because of the environment i grew up in" as an excuse. After each element(nature and nurture) has sold their "pitch" to you, it all boils down to YOU and what YOU decide to do!
I gree we take what we have learned and we make it into our own style, what work for the person. Speaking of smart people in a group and the ones who are not smart, I mean it depend on the gruop and the subject. The person you think is not smart, may blow you out of the water in other areas of subjects and life. Don't underestimate the dumb guy, you may find your self eating dirt one day.

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