Why do certain people like to discriminate, people with throat/voice complications?
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You have to let it slide, don't let it bother you, THEY are the ones with a problem, people are really insensible and make fun of what they think it's different, good luck with your doctor, don't let people affect you!
I would just stay away from the people who will talk bad about you. And don't go anywhere alone, so you don't get beat up.
carry mace, and i don't know, but i am sorry people treat you like that, That sucks a lot. Actually those people suck a lot
You may not like this answer, but I suspect it is the attitude of lacking confidence that draws bullies to you more than your un-average voice. People pick on easy targets way more often than they pick on people who are simply different.
I would do some self help exercises, therapy of some sort, or some other confidence building things like karate or yoga. Try to learn to not be a victim and how to respond to such ugliness in a positive way.
That sounds like the exact problem this guy pierre lebrun had...then he shot 4 or his ex-co workers because they made fun of him for so many years.
I know kind of where you're coming from because i'v had a lisp my whole life and people are very cruel to me at times.
people just like to pick at every little thing thats wrong with another person because it makes them feel better about themselves. Seriously, i know that answer sounds like something a mom would say but it's true. People often feel better when the person beside them is miserable.
some people dont realize just get their kicks stomping on someone else. They get their high from making fun of someone who cannot help but be who they are. These people are ignorant, and truthfully, you shouldn't pay attention to them at all, because their opinion of you doesn't matter.
Most of the people that are cold hearted and nasty often get made fun of too, just in a setting where they are not on top, but somewhere where they are not in authority. They respond by taking it out on someone else, and someone who is different from them is the perfect person.
I have a skin dosorder in which there are patches of extremely dry skin, and they often bleed. I have been called a reptile (scales), a self mutilator, and other things that shouldn't see the light of day. I have found that the best course of action is to ignore the remarks, and just know that you are better than what they are calling you because if you dont then you may start believing them, and that can only hurt.
Stay strong
Being different, outside of "normality" attracts attention.
Lions and other predetory creatures identify their prey this way.
Pop Stars crave to be different and are rewarded handsomely because of it.
Their differrence is considered an attribute where yours is considered a lack of full physicallity, a weakness and therefore easy prey.
The intellectual mindset of your associations can have a direct bearing on the frequency of your hurtful experiences as well as their cognesence to their own life tribulations.
Face the reality of your condition and take the trouble to educate where possible and tolerate where appropriate.
Become stronger and self assurred and you will be a better person for it and released from the anxiety when subjected to the ignorance of others.
There is an over worked saying, "things could be worse" and when one sees another, say no legs, wheelchair bound, blind, etc, etc we very briefly acknowledge how "lucky" we are before reverting back to self pity for our own circumstances.
Hope that does for you
hello darling
people will always say or do things to put others down nut one cannot let them get the better of one'self .It's a long story but i will tell you anyways :
once upon a time there was a man and his son ,travelling to another village and the only mode of transportation that they had was an old donkey.When they started their journey , the man let his 16 yr old son ride the donkey and as they passed through the village a group of onlookers started commenting ,"look at the young son , how rude !the poor old father's walking and the young son is riding ;no respect for the elders and blah blah blah .so the son got off and the father mounted the donkey and they moved on ... and came the next village and people said "look at the arrogant father , the poor son is walking in the heat and the father is merrily enjoying the ride , so the father got off and they both started walking and they put their luggage on the donkey and when the next village came the peopl,e said "what an outrage !look and the pair they are making the poor animal suffer no compassion what so ever ...!!!!!
my point is that you have to feel comfortable with yourself . live your life ----with your blessings and do what you have to take care of your shortcomings if you feel there are any .Dont let people leed your life and don't let what they say influence you to a point where you loose touch with your reality . Be happy , listen to what people are saying but do what you want !!!!!!
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