I'm a retard with low self-esteem. What should i do?
Thank u!
Answer:
The first thing you need to do is stop calling yourself a retard. You then need to think about all the positive aspects of your life and you also need to think more positively about yourself and your talents. Look, everyone in life gets laughed at or teased at one time or another, but what people say or think about you does not define you. You have to learn that we all go through periods of self - doubt and many times life isn't fair, but you have to learn to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep on moving no matter what happens and no matter what other people say.
If you play keyboard very well, then keep working that keyboard. You can go just as far with that as with a guitar. Lots of great artists and musicians have made fabulous music with the keyborad. We would never have had all those great hits from the 80's if not for the keyboard. Keep focusing on your talents. We all have weak moments, but we can't let them get the best of us.
As for your friends, they're not really your friends if they don't treat you with respect. Find yourself some new friends.
First off--drop the name calling. You can't control other people, but you can control what you say about your own self. Your first sentence gives it all away. You teach others how to treat you! Second, time to drop the so-called friends who bring you down. No one needs people like that--friends are there to support you, not belittle you. Third, get involved in the service of others to find out what gifts you have. We all have talents and gifts--you don't know what yours are yet. When you do find out, your confidence and self-worth will rise and you will naturally attract better people in your life. Also, I highly recommend watching Dr. Phil or reading some of his self-help books!
Good luck in your journey to being the best you can be!
Ok step number one, stop calling yourself names. Find something that you excell at, and take pride in it. It could be anything, skateboarding, drawing, writing, building or making things. Just keep experimenting until you find that one thing that lets you know you are a winner
Make a list of 7 positive things about yourself every day. Demand the respect a person with positive things deserve. y making daily llist, you prove to you that you are worthy of not being treated badly
The answers post by the user, for information only, FunQA.com does not guarantee the right.
More Questions and Answers: