I think something is wrong with me?

i received terrible news today, not death, but terrible news. but after the news settled in, i wanted to have sex. i'm not someone who is like that. i just wanted sex really bad. i dont understand my reaction, i dont think this is normal..any advice?

Answer:
Shlane... I don't think that's crazy. $#@ can be used a great way to deal with stress and it can be a great distraction. Just last night... I had a bad day at work, I miss my son who is staying with his mom for the summer and I got some disappointing news from my mentor at church... and then i went home and hade sex with my wife and all of a sudden the whole world seemed a lot better! Seriously!

I wish you had someone to jump right now, but not just anyone... you aren't the hook up kind of girl. I wish I could help, but we both know that's not an option.

What happned to that dude from church? You might not get a home run from him, but sometimes a nice conversation and the prospect of getting to home someday down the road is a suitable distraction from a crappy day.

Dan
ok that is ur hormones and i think u r just u know sexualy active or somethin ot this is really uncomfortable typing so u know.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww
sorry i am really amature.
Any strong emotion can cause that. ~
WOW .. you might consider a professional darlin .. please be careful
very normal you know right after 911 birth rates almost doubled .Some use alcohol some use drugs and yes sex is a good stress relife, my advice if it aint broke dont fix it.
The act of having sex releases several hormones, endorphins, that cause happy feelings. If you are experiencing a horrible event or negative feelings, it is perfectly normal to want to replace those feelings with "happy feelings". Some people will want to drink alcohol or do drugs, others will look at exercises such as sex. Sex is a unique exercise that not only releases the happy feelings but also a feeling of human connection and emotional fulfillment. Don't feel weird for wanting sex, just acknowledge that you were looking for an escape from the pain you are feeling and try addressing the pain head on. Don't give in to your feeling of wanting to escape from the pain with sex. There are sex addicts that use sex to escape from pain and you do not want to go there. Find a good person to talk to about the pain and/or journal it. Save sex when it is for the sake of enjoying a loved one not to escape from pain.
you might just have craved physical closeness for comfort.. it's not that crazy!
i guess a lil more info about the bad news would help me understand better but from personal experience yes! it happened to me too...after lots of thinking i end up believing that when u feel bad low devastated sad or misserable u just need something to shake you up get you out of that mood. you feel like screamin..brakin...or just stayin curled in a corner lifeless...but none of that you like.you also know that you do wanna get rid of the feeling.so sex helps you break through it ...intimate or rough you just take out of you all the anger sadness n misery...you compine your emotions n unleash 'em through sex.n after that ...you feel like you got rid of a load!your mind feels clear n focused.u r revived...ready 2 fight or forget the "BAD NEWS".hope i helped...
Just calm down, gather your thoughts.

Stress can make you think irrationally, and it seems like you have enough stress to fill the state of alaska.

Once you have your stress under control, then reflect what has happened.

Such is the path to clarity.
no advise for that i don't think many people would feel that way
i agree with skyler. when you feel strong emotions you kind of feel aggressive (not in a cruel way) so your hormones hit ya and you wanted sex because its a way of expressing strong emotional feelings. It is like a release. I know how you feel, i had that too.
I very sad because i finished a relationship of six years.He dont love me.Never loved me!
My God you poor woman, heres my number, call me for counselling, lol. That is the most interesting psychology related story I have ever heard in my life.No, it's far from normal, but interesting. You probably have a very complicated life, time deficiet, too many bills, overworked. I can see how that could happen psycholigically, because a few years ago I was in an auto accident that happened at the most inopportune time and I developed a short term memory loss. After complete neuro-psyche eval they told me it was my minds way of overcoming stress, because I had far too many stressful issues in my life to deal with them head-on. Sort of like temporary amnesia for the sake of self-preservation. So let me know if you want my phone number.

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