A friend of mine just passed away-- why do i have such an earey feeling?

i lost my brother 6 years ago and throughout those 6 years i lost others close to me as well. everytime there is a death i get brutally uncomfortable and feel like someone is watching me, waiting to say something to me. I am 21 years old and it still happens. Since i heard my my friends death i cant sleep because i am scared someone is watching me... why is this? how can i make it stop?

Answer:
Maybe the deaths around you make you think of your own mortality. In our youth, we think we are invincible and that things that happen to other people won't happen to us. When those close to us die, we have to look at and realize our own mortality. Perhaps you still have some emotions you have not dealt with surrounding your brother's death. Seek some counseling. I personally believe Biblical counseling is the best because it is based about the principles of the Bible.
You are growing paranoid because probably you think someone is going to kill you.
I think it is because when it happens to someone close to you you realize how real death is and that it can and will happen to you my best suggestion is to talk to a Pastor of a Bible Believeing Church and find out how to be saved and to know where you will be after death.This life on earth is very short but life after death is forever and hell is real and once thoer no way out.You can be a very good person here on earth but if you don't accepty Jesus as your savior you will not go to Heaven.Read John 3:16
Death happens! If all you do is worry about it you will never amount to anything. Take advantage of your youth while you can. If I could go back to being 21, I would do things very different. Everyone has friends and family die, maybe you have had more experience with death than most people your age and I am sorry about that, but loosing your mind to fear doesn't do anyone any good. I am about as paranoid as a person can be but I have good reason to be, I'm not imagining people are watching me I know they are! I fear nothing, stuff happens and there is nothing you can do about it besides getting over it.

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