Are you a person who gets ridiculed by people for your appearance, but you still have high self-esteem?
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People snicker at me when I get on a bus!
It used to bother me until I decided none of them house me,cloth me or put food on my table.I'm going to use a couple of songs here because I play guitar and music expresses some things better than just saying it.
There's a song by old Fleetwood Mac that starts off "I can't help about the shape I'm in.
I can't sing I ain't pertty and my legs are thin.
But don't ask me what I think of you.I might not give the answer that you want me to."
Nobody is perfect.EVERYONE has a flaw and a bit of ugliness that if bought to the surfice would make people run in shame.Remember that next time someone is making fun.
Who's more ugly,a person that may not fit up to someoneelse's standard of beauty or the person that has to point out someone else's looks to take the attention off there own 'ugliness'
You should realize how much strenth it takes to deal with that type of harassment.There are people in prisons for hurting people for doing a lot less than you have had to deal with.
That says a lot about you and that inner strenth that those clowns don't see or won't reconize.
I have a habit of getting my defences up and not seeing the folks that are checking me out in a positive sense.
I've hurt some people because I thought they were staring at me.(Not physically!)and all they wanted was to be friendly.
I'm trying not to do that so much.
Second song.Jimi Hendrix had a song that states'I'm the one that's got to die when it's my time to die.So,let me live my life the way I want to."
One thing I found out is,it's not the quanty of friends,it's the quality.I've got those "one in a million' type of people as my friends.Why should I care about what some fool on a bus does.
Sincerely,
Cyreno
join the club... this society is cruel and has become less human well not really the society but people will tend to follow the crowd so they become more shallow and heartless.
one tends to forget that we are all equal whatever our shape, colour,social status etc.
we want to be better than the others and show off.
It is hard to be true to oneself and whilst being different from the norms (being thin , remade , rich ,etc) but one should be proud of ourselves (if a good person) and stand up for our beliefs. one should be fighting against this norms that are created just by the majority of people but not 100% of them.
why should a person with a handicap be looked down at or a fat person be denigrated or a ugly person.
all these criteria changes with time aswell so what is being ugly now could be beautiful tommorrow.
even now being fat is being ugly in alot of parts of the world but some countries consider fat women as the most beautiful ones.
I could go on writing but have to stop .
be proud of yourself and stand up for your position.
have a great day...
id rather be you, imagine being gorgeous and then having people be attracted to you for that, treat you like something special just cause of looks, you dont know what to think
you must be hideous if youre talkin this way cause a lot of people out there, the majority are just normal people, or even unnatractive and they live day to day so... if you are hideous then just keep in mind one day everyone will lose their looks
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